So, I've been talking to a girl online for a couple of weeks and I'm interested in either a relationship or friendship with her. Personally, I'm not sure what I want yet, but she is cool. I want to ask her to meet irl sometime soon, but I can't figure out whether I should ask her on a date or to just hang out. If there is a chance at more, I don't want to ruin it by sending her to many "just friends" signals.
She likes to talk to me about fairly personal stuff about both her and me. She asks a lot of personal and aspirational questions. She has expressed an interest a couple of times in what I find attractive in women or if I have a type (which felt like a test to me of how shallow I was because she follows it up asking things like if I would date someone who was disfigured or if I like large breasts.) I am quite different from her description of attractive traits in men (like 50%.) She keeps seeking reassurance that I like talking to her and am not bored by her. The only physical compliments I have got from her have been about my eyes (which was the first thing she said is an important feature on a guy.) Oh, and we chat a lot and for pretty long extended periods at a time.
What I want to know is if she sees me as a potential date or a potential friend? Should I ask her to hang out as friends or on a date?
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You should just go for friend right n0o0w so you can get to know each other better s0o0o you can have a better connection before you start to date. So I would just ask her out as friends for n0o0wo but let her know that you are into her though s0o0o she doesn't begin to like another person. Best Of Luck :)1