I mean I think you are spot on. I think with a simple shirt change... someone can appear more attractive. So the answer I believe is FALSE.
All very good points! I don't disagree. I guess the question is more to the people who have given up and say "there is no hope for me." And I believe there is hope for everyone to improve themselves and become more attractive!
Awww, I hate reading that you don't feel attractive. *hugs* I get a haircut and think I'm hot shit lol. I'm cute and fat and I know my appeal mostly comes from my personality and other than that, I have no right to high self esteem. I just do it anyway lol
@DorkVader I've always had terrible self esteem, even now that I'm in shape and not as fat as I used to be. Considering I was always the average girl that was just "there" or no one really noticed growing up, it's hard to break that mentality, even if others say otherwise.
@dorkvader @cynicaldreamer I'm 5'6 bald and still working on getting into shape. I am right there with you.
@cynicaldreamer @coachtanthony I'm here for the snacks. Praise the Lord and pass the barbecue
@DorkVader I was burning the midnight oil... just now having my coffee!
@coachTanthony @DorkVader I'm 5'6", average looking at best, and I'll admit, yes I could look better. But I'm trying too coach! I pretty much live at the gym, am trying to do better, and raise my self esteem to match my supposedly better appearance now.I got protein bars, cheese cubes, and cookies for snacks!... no cookies for you coach until my unicorn appears, sorry.
Oh we dropping stats? I'm 5'1, just cut my hair off again, and I'm always dressed casually at best. I'm cute and have a nice smile and I just ate a bacon sammich with my coffee waiting for this damn donation truck
@dorkvader you had me at bacon sammy. @cynicaldreamer The cookies better be homemade! I expect nothing but the best when said Unicorn appears!
@coachtanthony it was a sweet black pepper bacon sammich from Dunkin Donuts. I splurged.
@DorkVader sweet black pepper bacon between a glazed donut sounds so good right now!
Dunkin Donuts donuts are gross. I only like their coffee
@DorkVader There coffee is really good!
Am I the only one that ate healthy this morning? I had overnight oats and a protein shake for breakfast!😑
@coachTanthony The better the man is, the better the cookies will be!And yes, I can bake a mean batch of cookies! From tea cakes, to chocolate chip cookies If he appears between now and March, I'll even send you a king cake!
@cynicaldreamer Ha Okay.
What she said! This answer is so accurate!
@Cynicaldreamer I now understand your username. You sound sweet. Somebody would be lucky to have you around to bake cookies for them. I'm surprised nobody has realized your value via your persona yet.
@Robertocw Aww, thank you! Contrary to my username, I'm not -that- cynical. Just... realistic. I think I just intimidate most guys, or they see me as more of a girl friend than girlfriend. Which is fine! It just means I haven't found the right man to spoil and share my life with... yet. Maybe one day.
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It was worded tricky that is for sure! LOL
Ya got me, Coach! 🤣
That might be the longest answer I have ever seen from you! Thank you for the well thought out comment!
I always have some tricks up my sleeve coach! Just when they think they know what I’m about... kablam!!
Sorry, thought the question said, "You can make yourself more attractive?"
You are just stating a fact. You can address those flaws... you can get out of debt. You can wear better clothes. There are many things you can do to make yourself more attractive.
You can work your way out of debt at a job but you can't just choose to not be in debt any more. Just as you can work your way out of being unattractive at a gym but you can't just choose to not be ugly any more.
Ugly is a state of mind. So I don't believe in that anyway. Thanks for the comments.
This is my take. (This is my number system based on looks)1-3 will always stay ugly4-5 can look slightly better6- Normal people that can look better7-8 above average people will look very good if they better themselves9- Extremely attractive people. Don't need to work for their looks10- These people don't exist
@Jennifer_32 - dead on. There are no 'tens'. A ten is a nine that has special meaning to someone else. Why is your username 'jennifer'? Did you lie about your gender?
If you put strangers opinions above your own then NO. Your opinion about yourself comes first. I am 5'6 does that make me unlovable? Not a real man? I heard it all before. Not once has it stopped me from finding love, jobs, friends, etc. Why? because I don't dwell on other's opinions about me... I simply believe in who I am and live my life accordingly.
Yes but if people treat you like you’re ugly then what can you do?When they won’t take pictures with you or if they do they will never post them?I’ve been called ugly many times. I honestly don’t know why because I’m just average looking. Nothing about is weird or strange.
Who called you ugly? How important are they too you? Are these people responsible for your happiness?
So, @Anon the next time someone pretends like they want to take a picture with you, push them aside and tell them you can’t because you’re too fucking ugly to do so. See what their reaction is and walk away.
We are not talking about "one offs" of people with deformities.
Well a fact has to be universally true
If ur saying it's a fact you have to include them as well
Generally speaking. I don't put generally speaking because most people here know this.
Generally speaking yeah but it really depends on your face.
It does not. I could put a different shirt on someone and they would become more attractive. It's not all that serious man lol
Yeah they would
It's just some people just dont have the willpower to even self improve
ok... how about without the makeup..
Does skincare count?
I mean I don't need makeup to be more attractive that's not what I meant with the one hour bathroom thing, I meant prepping my skin, moisturizing especially the lips doing my hair and stuff like that especially dressing nice that makes aaaaall the difference in the world
yes that counts.
@Robertcw my man you good?😂
xD. Yes I'm fine. I just need to get out more.
more fruits and vegetable makes you more attractive?
It helps your skin
No doubt! Excellent point!
Not for everyone, some people will just be ugly
@producer cool story bro
I think they made a movie about that.
Good sport man!
I voted true but at the same time, the answer of this is just vacant because there's people just full of terrible genetics like people with extreme disabilities.
I could change that wife beater you are wearing and make you 50% more attractive!
Well not about me, I can easily just work out and get a new hair style.I'm slightly below average but I can go from above if I'm dedicated.Thing is if someones genetically born with something like 3 eyes or some facial deformity, yeah I don't know if theyll be more attractive