But pursuing a girl after being rejected could also be clingy, annoying and unattractive?
And surely you would hint That you want him to pursue you if you reject a guy for this reason?
No I would not hint it - you don’t have to explicitly ask a girl out - a guy who used to like me would buy me donuts from Tim Hortons - it only cost $1.00 - $2.50 but I knew he didn’t drive and spent one hour busing there to buy them for me. Being nice is a way to communicate interest without begging for dates.
I guess everyone is different. Some people have said they get annoyed being shown they like them without making their intention clear.
Its context - if you know somebody likes you and you don't make it clear you like them back - it can annoy them - on the other hand - if you know somebody doesn't like you - you don't have to make it obvious you like them or be direct about liking them - you can hint at it or express interest in non-verbal ways.
I never know if someone likes me or not and I recently made a big mistake of asking a girl I like out because I interpreted the signs wrong.
I don’t tend to get mad. I tend to just walk away and avoid them because it’s less painful for me then.
But does that give her the impression I’m mad?
Depends how close you got before I guess. If you were good friends then that would give that impression
I mean no ita kind of to be expected, just try to not act differently around her if it happens, best thing u can do is act like it changes nothing if u were being nice keep being nice, distancing urself helps as well if u don't feel comfortable
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Well yeah that’s just desperate, clingy and annoying. But I mean acting the same as before.