[...] She dates guys who start to resemble her personal [secretary] [...]
I imagine it's not so different from girls. In my case, it wasn't like I was a young Brad Pitt but I could get a date fairly easily, whenever I wanted, so I was pickier about it. It took more than good looks and a flirty dynamic for me to find a girl really interesting that way. She'd have to spark my interest in a more complex way. I imagine girls who have their pick of guys are similar -- it takes more than good looks and friendliness probably to make them see a guy that way.
I might have a bit more in common with girls that way, at least when I was younger. Like I was more used to girls approaching me than the other way around (though I usually ended up being the one to ask out, and preferred it that way, if I went for the girl). And some were very attractive but it's like I didn't see them that way. I got more and more picky about it the more experienced I became about it. In particular, I had this one I fell madly for, and that didn't work out but after her, I became pickier than ever before... because it's like I experienced was being absolutely and crazily in love with a girl could be like, and I didn't want to invest time into a date when I was fairly sure I would feel anything less (I couldn't know for certain if I could feel that way and with whom, but I could get some sense of who I certainly wouldn't feel that way with).
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