I met this wonderful girl last week. We had drinks for a few hours and got to know each other. I really think things went well. At the end of the night she gave me a hug and said we should hang out again. I'm just wondering if this is all just friendly? I have nothing against it if it is. I actually got introduced to her from a girl I went out on 2 dates with (they are both friends). I really liked her, but she told me she wasn't feeling it between us. Somehow I managed to stay friends with her. She told me she put in a good word for me. Could this be another friends outing?
Well I've been just taking it easy, because too much too soon freaks people out. I barely text. So tomorrow we are having lunch. She kind of asked in a roundabout way after I teasingly bragged about going out to eat at one of my favorite restaurants. She replied that we should both go there sometime. I said I could go again. She: this weekend? Me: Yes, you wanna go with me? Her: hahaha yeah silly.
So my question is, do you think these are dates or just hanging out? Is there a difference? I don't know if I should be on my game, anticipating the next move or just chill.
Answer for others if you want.
Most Helpful Girl
yeah, you've been hanging out so far as good friends...but she seems to like you and is trying to arrange seeing you again- so now you're going to this restaurant and it most likely is a date. Watch her behavior and what she says, it is most likely going to tell you if she's into you as more than a friend or not...if she seems like she is, then you should start acting like it is a date! And then ask her at the end to go on a date in the next few days or whenever...then you'll have said it out loud and there won't be any confusion.0