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Have you talked to her about it?
Yes but she said that I am pushing her and the motivation should come from within 🤷🏿♀️
You should be her biggest motivation if she loves you. Sounds like an excuse.
I understand her.She has financial issues, family issues and she is struggling with ocd.From what I grasped she has a lot on her plate rn to have the motivation for smthng else.Though I told her doing an activity she likes get help her vent out but she said she is not ready rn emotionally.Sucks though, I am trying to be patient and I keep on doing subtle implies. Cause last time when I called her out on her lifestyle she had a panic attack so 😅
Can help her*
I get it I’ve had similar things happen. Not being active is going to put her in a negative head space and she’ll continue to gain weight. That can’t be an excuse. It’ll be an excuse every time life gets hard.
I know... that's how I think.All I can do is keep on supporting her rn though 🤷🏿♀️
That’s all you can do for the people you love. Don’t let it change your life and know when to step back. Not all the people you date are going end up deserving that. I’m not saying she doesn’t but it’s something I learned from my last relationship.
Yea thank you for the advice ^^It's my first relationship honestly
You’re welcome! I just got out of my first relationship so I understand
Yeah, my point exactly 😆😆😆
It's kind of fun to teach your SO
Are you a girl?
@32DD_yeye no I’m german lol. I looked it up but I’m pretty sure most germans won’t have a clue. We aren’t big on baseball
@32DD_yeye Baseball is an irrelevant sport in *many* countries. Really it's only American countries where baseball is viewed as something routinely played.
@Mondlicht and @Dingsbums how the fuck does baseball have anything to with the question?
@32DD_yeye The OP's basis for "fitness" is their date not knowing how to play baseball. That's what baseball has to do with things.
@Mondlicht Ok i guess
@Mondlicht you don’t have to play ball to be fit but I was asking the question for girls. My date hated being competitive and asked me to go on another date but doesn’t like that I’m active on my free time. This question was meant to ask if girls mind their date not being active or into sports.
@_uck_uckGoose - ROFL. Then learn how to write proper sentences. Unless one is a mind reader how on earth is one supposed to associate baseball - a trivial sport in so many countries - with being competitive? Particularly when not every American plays & it certainly isn't relevant in other countries so he could be a foreigner.
@Mondlicht yeah I didn’t phrase my question correctly, add details, and make my question so only women can answer. I was busy not being on this site. You should try it sometimes ROTMF it seems like you’re trying way to hard to prove a point that no one cares about. He was also American and said he played ball when he was younger. Again, my question was pretty vague.