What about during a conversation. What makes you or other girls nervous during conversation?
I don't know if it's just me, but I find it a lot easier if the guy starts the conversation. I'm perfectly ok to carry on a conversation, but I think starting one is the hardest part because I tend to be shy around attractive guys.
I usually start the conversation with the girl who is nervous but she still seems to be very nervous during the conversation. She makes very strong eye contact, isn't distracted by anything but I see signs of nervousness (rubs her neck, plays with an earring, fidgets).
If she was very uncomfortable, then she wouldn't be making very strong eye contact, so I don't think she's uncomfortable. There's a decent chance that she finds you attractive, and she might just be awkward and not know what to do. If you try to make her smile or laugh, she might relax a little and enjoy the conversation a bit more.
Well she usually makes strong eye contact when we are either talking or sometimes we make long eye contact across the room without talking. However, when we pass by each other, she tends to not look at me at all or quickly looks down or to the side. She gets very quiet around me when we are alone but if there is another person in the room she can get very chatty and outgoing with me. During our conversations all eyes are on me and she rarely looks at her phone.
It sounds like there's a chance she finds you attractive... but don't jump to conclusions and assume how she's feeling. Just try and "get her out of her shell", so to speak, so you can get to know her better. She could just be awkward around guys. Do you have a crush on her?
I like her and as far as I know, she is not awkward around guys in general at all. She is one of those type of chicks who gets hit on a lot.
Well I wish you the best of luck, it seems like you've caught her eye ✌
thank you. But I guess my question is.. How can I make her less nervous? I do have a good sense of humor and I do make her laugh all the time and so on... but she still seems to be very awkward and nervous around me?
Body language can give away a lot without you even realising. You might accidentally look a little annoyed without knowing. Or she could still be trying to figure you out. Do you talk often?
Well we actually don't talk often. I sometimes, myself, get a little nervous and sometimes don't know what to say lol. So sometimes we just sit there in silence. But when we do talk, we have very nice conversations where she seems to agree with everything I say lol.
I tend to give off a very "masculine" and "don't care" vibe a lot of the times so I guess that might have some affect
The vibe you described might be giving her mixed signals. And if you don't talk often, then that vibe isn't ideal. So maybe just relax and have light-hearted conversations. If she's agreeing with everything, she's either trying to please you (attracted to you) or she's not 100% sure what you're talking about.
oh no she does know what I'm talking about because sometimes she refers back to what I say or comments on what I say and so on.
Ok that's a good sign. I hope I helped a little, sorry if I didn't.
you did! thank you!
No problem 👌
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what do you tend to do when you are nervous? What kind of body language?
I typically always have a ring and braclet on so I tend to play with them, and if I'm sitting I'll shake
I assume this applies to earrings as well?
Yah, I dont really have any but I would assume
What should a guy do to make the girl (or you for example) be less nervous?
J don't be a jerk, try to make us laugh, compliment her