That being said.. going out and trying to meet someone is just couple everywhere ..
*couples everywhere There's maybe like 2 singles in each bar.. why even bother?
Well, maybe not 2, but 2 that I'd actually go for
Exactly the reason for the question , I prefer in real life aswell but there doesn't seem to be many single people out there right now
@Scott_90 yea.. feels buddy.. Funny, I figured there would be tons of singles out.. its valentine's!! Like the couples would be staying in or doing coupley stuff, and all the singles would be out trying to meet people. Alas I think the anti-valentines movement has taken the love out of today. Haha I looked up parties here and most of them are in fact explicitly anti-valentines parts where you can go to wallow in desperation, of that's your kinda thing lol.Well at least there's my home away from home.. fick I love this bar.. such a friendly vibe.I know there's no singles here. And just made friends with a couple smoking and talking after I talked to the waitress about how there's no singles after she overhears talking to some other guy.. haha weeeeGuarentee I won't a woman tonight but I'm going g to go dancing and just have some fun
Yeah that's exactly what I do when there's no one about 😂
Maybe the right answer was to go to one of the anti-valentines parties
Since I found this place a few months ago, I've been coming here exclusively. It's a true gem for its vibe. So I'm usually here. And there's usually more people, but Saturday. And not Valentine's day 😂
@Scott_90 maybe I should get into online dating. The ratio of couples to singles at our age is just too high in the general population At least with online dating, the women there are single, all of them.Too often there's no one about..
I was thinking about joining one that's the response I get from couples when I ask how they met , it's all online Where has the days of walking up to someone and starting a convo gone
There is still many convos to be had walking up to people. I have soo many conversations in a night.. hooray!! People All The Friends!!!
Friends are great don't get me wrong! I just wouldn't mind if some of the people were singles who happened to be really hot and fun and interesting and and I'd click with
@scott_90 that's I'm hearing a lot too.So what's the good stuff?
I agree I ment it in the sense of someone single , I have no idea maybe that's a question to ask on here
Hahaha so I'm sitting here texting and writing this question up about onlike dating and this random guy is like hey man do you mind I just want to take a picture of this poster and I'm like oh no problem buddy and so I get up so he can take a pic of this poster and then I'm like hey I'm going to take a picture of you taking a picture of this poster, and I did and we joked and talked for a bit and he was telling me about the movie that is this poster about Yugoslavia, and he was a fun dude. so I went to take a picture of the poster and then he's like I'm going to take a picture of you taking a picture of the poster! And we laughed and jokes.. such good times
Hahaha that's very random but sounds like a fun interaction
I mean ways the good stuff in regards to dating sites?Tinder – may be the most shallowMatch – oldskool but used to be for serious people (I don’t know if it’s still used)OkCupid – lots of detail, fun question that can be used to match with people (I don’t know if it’s still used)eHarmony – no. Pay lots of money to rely on someone else to find you a date.Hinge – been seeing adds lately for this, and I want to give it a try. Is it any good?Bumble – apparently popular. I think it sells itself as a social app, so it’s less pressure (good) but that also means you can’t count on someone there being there for dating. Still, can makes friends which is goodPlentyOfFish – cesspoolAgree/disagree? Thoughts?
Hehheeh it wasAnd that's regular good timesAnd that's fun that online dating doesn't provide
Still, if I had pick between a million such awesome random interactions, and 1 woman to. love.That's such an easy choice hahah
I think you should post the above as a question on here maybe get people to rate them?
I haven't tried any of them yet would be good to get real opinions/reviews other then the ones on the app page
I will! I have lots of questions about how to Lots!!!
Yeah that's a good idea, poll to rate them, any others you can think of for me to include?
I seen an advert for one called helium dating
I've done a little online dating before but I am so outstandingly fail at this hahahaI've only been one 1 date, and we made our hour didn't really connect like we did onlineLacked chemistry (figures lol)Man I can't write this message without couples dancing up into me and making out.. 😂I've done OkCupid and Match, and a little bit on tinder but didn't really take it seriously.. I took OKC most seriously of all of them since it's got such excellent features (questions are awesome).Match is ok, and apparently it's for seriousness, which is good maybe
Ok I'll include it.Here goes
Just thought of a follow up question to ask Should you have multiple dating app accounts to increase your chances?
I think the answer to that is yesHow could that be not better.Except wasted time and money, it got even a lot of money..
Here's a question. How come the couple sitting across from me, the woman is hot hut the guy is disgusting ugly. Yet I can't find one
Woman is hot *yet the guy is disgustingly ugly
Why am I still here?
Looks don't mean anything (to some degree) it's all about confidence /owning who you are Or he has a sh*t load of coin
Or it's his sister
Reminds me of this time I was at an underground bar/ nightclub Seen a gorgeous girl dancing , went over started dancing with her/ conversation , she was actually on a date , she pointed him out same thing (he fell from the ugly tree ) but he refused to get on the dance floor , left me confused as hell
Tonight was so disappointing and discouraging
Yeah in fact I did overhear him bragging other about having lots of moneyI swear that's the actually the most important thing to women
No if it was his sister then he's fucking his sister
Yeah that was probably the thing with the woman you are talking about too.Women will be with the ugliest and/or most abusive men they don't care. As long as he has lots of money hahahaha
Incest... a game for the whole family
Yeah I do pritty well at avoiding gold diggers they ask what car I drive -i took the bus How much money do I earn -im on the doll haha
Yeah that guy looked like he had a really close family 😂
Haha yeah I least I don't have to worry about gold diggers.Man I don't know if I could have any respect for a woman who was using me for money. Like, I literally don't know because I don't have money
😂 people that allow gold diggers in their life ( people with money ) likely don't respect themselves anyway
I feel like there's a minimum level of career and money that women want to be able to meaningfully contribute to a relationship and marriage and kids and all that having a life shit that I don't at all measure up to. So it doesn't matter how amazing a boyfriend would be and how much better I am able to treat her nor the next level sex, I don't stand a chance. Almost every woman will choose the ugly shit dude who is going to mistreat her
That being said I just met a lovely woman at the bus stop and on the bus. She asked for my number 😊Look forward to getting to know her
I had this buddy who is a good man to be sure (not at all an abuser) but not theist attractive guy in the world and he was telling me (years ago when I was at his cottage with one of my favorite exes) about this smoking hot girlfriend of his, who was in fact smoking hot. He was telling me a story and it was clear from it that she was totally using him for his significantly sized wallet, and you know what he said?He doesn't care, he's using her for sexSo I guess that's what it's like for those people..They have relationship that's fundamentally based on a transaction and it works for both of them. Ok, but not at all something I would be interested in
My ex was hotter
And, more importantly, she wasn't using me. We were in love. One of the very few times (3) I would say I've been in love.
Nicely done 👌 And yes I would assume there are people out there , comfortable with having a transaction based relationship I guess the bright side would be the guys with money are keeping the gold diggers busy haha
Its a hell of a feeling being in love may only happen a couple of times in your life
Yeah! They deserve each other 😂
It is. Best thing in life
I don't believe it's meant to be or any of that. We're not given a finite number of chances for love. We can make it happen again by doing the right things and being the best person I alcan so that when I meet a woman who might be a right one then I can do the right things because I have enough skills to recognize that she is a right one and make it happen
Spot on 👍 tbh there are very few people that take the time to recognise areas they can improve to be a better partner , kudos
@scott_90 Thanks! :D
I agree limited time online , have you tried many dating sites?
I only ever used tinder but got a good few dates from it.
One point for tinder then 👍
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