Hey guys, I hope I don’t get any judgment in this situation but I’ve been speaking to this guy for about a month now and he seems really sweet, kind and he’s so good looking! Anyways I’ve been told by 2 people, one girl one guy that apparently he’s a bit of a player but I decided not to listen to them and I met up with him a few days ago and I did kiss him but I went home because I was feeling so nervous about the situation! Anyways the next day I met him again and he asked me to sit on his lap and kiss him so I did but I’m thinking now was that too much? I’ve told him I don’t want just sex and I want to actually get somewhere with him and he agreed, but what do you guys think about the situation? Is it true if you be mean it keeps em’ keen?