First of all you have managed to keep a friends with benefits for three whole years, which not many people can. That's hardly "slutty." Second your "friend" needs to mind her godamn business. Tell her she needs to get laid, cuz it sounds like she hasn't gotten any dick in a while and now she's salty. It's only to long if you aren't happy, or your waiting for something more. Otherwise do you girl:)
I can't really imagine that situation being ideal for such a long period of time, but, that's just me.
If you prefer being alone and that's working best for you, that's fair enough, as long as there aren't a bunch of other casual partners in the mix.
I would recommend ending that agreement as soon as possible when/if you feel you might want to find a proper relationship.
You should consider if you want something different. Do you want to move on and find a permanent relationship? Do you want to make this a permanent relationship? If you are happy with the way it is, then stick with it. Having just the one guy is safer in avoiding STIs, and he makes you happy.
I disagree with your friend. I don't see how fucking one guy makes you a slut. Is it a long time to have a sex friend for so long? Maybe.
Is she jealous of you fucking him? Maybe. There's a probability that she likes him and hates you for having his dick.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!She shouldn't slit shame you - your life and body. But you shouldn't make fun of her for not having a man, technically you have dick not a man in your life. Keep living life the way you want to & stay happy!
show your friend the below. 3 years is long I would also suspect more is going on there...
People like Opera have been known to be in relationships like this over 10 years. I'd older people are doing it. Why are younger women crushing younger women. Calling them slurs. Maybe they can't find anyone to sleep with them lol.
I don't disagree with you I just think there is more to the relationship definitely anything over 10 years. Or you tell me? You should show your friend the screen shot as she is wrong with calling you a slut as you can see the meaning is multiple men your only with one regardless of the status of the relationship. That's your business. She needs to take that back. I don't know what you think I am saying... Anyway do you
Why would anyone even care for how long you have been fucking anyone. It's just good fucking without the stress of all the rest.
I think your friend should mind her own business. If you can call that a friend. Don't worry about her opinion, keep doing what you're comfortable and happy with
I... don't understand why you would have a 3-year-long thing that is only sex, personally. It seems to me like that's almost a relationship.
If you have been with the fuck buddy for 3yrs and it's only sex with one dude, how the hell are you a slut?
Your friend apparently doesn't know the definition of the word "slut". Let alone that even if she was factually right (which she isn't), what kind of "friend" slut-shames her own friend? If I were you I'd get rid of her.
it’s your life not his, don’t bother about what he says it’s up to you
Your friend definitely sounds super jealous. Like totally. Why they care what you do with you own body parts?
If you are only having sex with him then you aren’t a slut , you are only a slut if you are screwing him and other guys as well , so if you aren’t doing that then your friend can’t be calling you a slut
do what u want,
the mass majority opinion's, ideas and logic is retarded, most people jus aren't very intelligent,
there's nothing wrong with having a fuckbody for that long and its not hurting anyone, so continue to do it
You are a slut
Your mom is a slut.
The sad thing is you basically get NOTHING out of it. Some orgasms, some jism, and a dead heart. No commitment, no support, no caring, no nothing. It's a losing proposition, for either gender, but the worst for the girls. The term 'hollow' comes to mind. A DEAD END.
i mean i would ask myself why i'm not having a relationship after 3 years. and if the guy isn't suitable for that, i would think about stopping the fuckbuddy thing anyway as it seems to inhibit your capacity of finding someone more permanent. i'm not walking in your shoes though. maybe a relationship isn't what you need/want. you'll have to be the judge.
How is it slutty to have sex with one person for 3 years? lol! Or are you banging a bunch of other dudes too?
As long as no one is confused what the relationship between you and your fuck buddy is, you may keep going forever.
No but at age 30 if your thinking that one day you may want something serious with marriage and kids you may need to pull your finger out before your eggs go past their sell by date.
Having a booty call friend, is a wrong, in general
RESPECT PEOPLE!
She probably is jealous
but at the same time, she knows that what you are doing is wrong. She is correct. Do you not think she is good enough to be doing what you are doing? Of course she is, she simply chooses not to.
Trying the test options as actual votes is 4 years too long.. Anyway after 5 months, you're a tagalong with a sweet center. If it's good for you, than do what you like.
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