Should I tell my friends with benefits I have feelings for them?

Anonymous
Just wanted a bit of advice. Recently I've realised that I've developed very strong feelings for my close friend who I've been sleeping with casually. I know these feelings aren't returned as he always says 'You best not catch feelings', 'I don't like you like that', 'This means nothing to me'. Should I bother telling him how I feel, as I know it'll end in rejection or should I just cut things off and try to get over him, as after all this I would still really like to be friends with him.

Thanks! :)
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6 mo
Just an update - I told him and he doesn't feel the same as expected. He said he just doesn't feel a spark between us and that we're meant to be just friends. I'm heartbroken, but I won't be seeing him for a few months and we have agreed not to talk so I can get over him.
Should I tell my friends with benefits I have feelings for them?
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