My boyfriend nd I of 5 years recently broke up in early december. We broke up on a Friday after a huge fight and he met this new girl the next night(Saturday)! Since then it developed into a relationship and they have been dating now for about 4 months! He even took her on the vacation him and I were supposed to go on in march..He has called me a few times asking to meet up with him in the earlier months and I said no because I didn't want to give in and I also started talking to someone. He also called me on my birthday on feb 28th and told me he still loved me and thought about me when he was sleeping with her. I recently gave in and msged him on facebook and told him I missed him and the next day I waas blocked(prob due to his girlfriend seeing this msg) ...bc a few days later I was unblocked! now there has been no contact for about a month and I Haven't heard from him? What should I do, I still think about him almost everyday and still do love him. It has to be a rebound if it happened so soon but why is it lasting still ?
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Though I do believe there is such thing as rebounding, that is up to the people in the relationship, not you. My fiancee started dating me about a week after he broke up with a girl he dated for over 3 years. We have been engaged for about a year now and he never showed any interest in going back to his ex. In the beginning I really feared that I was just his 'rebound girl'. His ex STILL stalks him, drives by the house, sends messages, etc... he is polite and responds as long as she is not innapropriate, but really wishes she would just go away. He is a bit like me and just feels bad for breaking hearts.
I'm not trying to make you give up hope, but regardless of whether or not he is just in a rebound relationship, that is up to him. If you really do care about him, you will respect his relationship with this new woman. If he is happy, you should be happy, that is mature love. You already let him know how you felt, now let it go, if he wants to come back to you he will. The best you can do right now, is be there as a friend if he calls on you.0
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