Could you fall in love with someone just because they were really good in bed?

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Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

No, that's not an ideal way to fall in love with someone. Contrary to what most people believe, it takes more than sex to make a relationship last, no matter how good it is. A relationship based purely on sex is lust, not love; BIG difference!

Physical pleasure isn't enough to make me happy. I need a guy that can mentally and emotionally stimulate me, has an unique personality, shares common interests with me, and shows he wants to connect with me and isn't just after sex.

Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

Good in bed does not mean good at life. If a person is good in bed it means they have had lots of practice. If you want to fall in love with a Ho it's up to you. But if you want something that is lasting then sex shouldn't be your main focus. Sex comes and goes, but the heart will remain the same.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Not sure about falling in love , you can definitely want them more and more if they sex is amazing but falling in love needs chemistry and and removing selfishness , most people can’t remove selfishness , so it be more infatuated with someone then being in love

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

No. I don't work that way. Being great in bed is an awesome bonus, but it's not enough to make me fall in love with you.

anupamagrawal · Answer

Love is not about riding its about walking side by side holding hands with devotion.  So, I can fall in sexual intimacy with someone but can not in love - as love is more than how she handles my dick.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

Nooooo! Sex is an important aspect in a relationship, so being sexually compatible having good sex is important in my opinion.
That said, it's Only 1 aspect of a good relationship. There also has to be communication, trust, honesty, and respect for a relationship to work.
So the sex might be good, but if it's someone who don't treat me good, isn't a good person, all the good sex in the world wouldn't make me fall in love with them.

JinRavage · Answer

There are plenty of people who hate each other's personalities, but love having sex with each other.

Apple1996 · Answer

Honestly yess. Sex is how I feel loved so maybe I'm just more easily influenced on this then other people are.

hannahde97 · Answer

I think this happens more when people are young and not fully matured

EmbraceThePain · Answer

Never

normalice · Answer

I guess I don't understand what love is, if it's not an attachment to someone with whom you know intense mutual orgasms are a guarantee.

someginger · Answer

I could fall in love with someone if they can make a good pasta

Jjpayne · Answer

I'm sorry but that's not strong enough. Now if we talked after and bonded then, talking about our interests and our childhood, having some intimate moments after then yes. It's a seed for future encounters with each other

Lynx122 · Answer

No I've had a really good sexual connection with a girl but she had 0 interests besides sex so I couldn't connect with her at all as a person. It was a weird experience we were on and off for a long time because we kept being drawn to each other but then it didn't work anyway. But in the end it didn't work out :D

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

No! Am gonna need more than ''good in bed'' to fall in love with a person. I was in love with my now days wife before we had sex. People can't understand the difference between desire and love.

LoU_Hades · Answer

Nope. Sex doesn't give me the euphoria of being loved. Being the man only for bedroom isn't so satisfying in long run.

foxrider77 · Answer

I’d just be friends with benefits

Hermes-Paris · Answer

Yes! Oh yes yes yes yes YESSSSSSSSS.😍😍😍😍😍... for the weekend at least. Why do you know someone?

BestUserName100 · Answer

No they are a easy trashy hoe. Who would cheat on you with Italian types or wtf ever and use rich guys.. Lol.. Retarded ugly blonde skinny twig with dirty ass skin.