Is possible for a guy to like you for the moment but not see an actual future with you?

Question

Like you’re not someone he would marry but you’re good enough.

Answer 1

Xper 1

Well yes I think so. Take a guy who doesn't want to get married or have a partner for life: it doesn't mean that he won't like anyone and stay single 'til the end of his life. He could sincerely like you yet not change his plan. Or maybe with a guy who you freshly met: he can like you yet feel weird about planning his future with you so early in your relationship (which doesn't mean he won't). My point is : I think liking someone doesn't have to necessarily be linked with having a future, those are two very different things.

Answer 2

Frizzykitty0511

Xper 2

Yes, unfortunately people get caught in emotions of the moment and walks away when they're bored.

Answer 3

ecfresh | 3.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Absolutely. I told my first girlfriend I would not be marrying her. I was in love with her but at the time thought I would find someone else when I got older

Answer 4

itsmyownname | 84 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

Yes totally. Most guys don't want to settle down.

Answer 5

TheFlak38 | 2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

most guys can't do that.

DeJjj

5 mo
So every girl a guy dates or likes or supposedly loves he sees a future with her?
TheFlak38

5 mo
yes. most guys. Give him one blow job and next week he's ready to propose.
DeJjj

5 mo
But that really wouldn’t be love or like though just lust lol
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TheFlak38

5 mo
you don't know what love is for a man.
DeJjj

5 mo
You’re right but I know that wanting to propose to a woman because she gave you top notch head isn’t love lol. If you would have said something different like her personality, the connection you guys have etc I wouldn’t have even said that.
TheFlak38

5 mo
The majority of guys today are sad, miserable, desperate and thirsty they don't give a damn about any of those things. Personality? Connection? What's that? I have friends who destroyed their lives (literally) by getting married with the worst of the worst. The most repulsive woman they could find, full of daddy issues and what not. Why did they do it? Because she was the only one available. She spread her legs, the guy fell into her beaver trap, then the children came and then it's time to create problems out of nothing in order to bring up the divorce.
DeJjj

5 mo
So still like I said that isn’t love. That’s just them settling for what or whoever.
DeJjj

5 mo
I know a guy who dates a woman on all types of drugs. She drinks, smokes and pops pills almost every other day and she has also cheated on him and got a std when she did it but he’s still with her until this day. I wasn’t disagreeing with you. I mean like you said most young people both men and women don’t care for a connection etc if you good enough sexually and satisfying them they’re all for it but that doesn’t change the fact that isn’t what love is. What you said is just people wanting whoever wants them. Who gives them attention etc
TheFlak38

5 mo
You have no idea what love is for a man. You will never understand because you have a vagina.

Answer 6

DeJjj

So every girl a guy dates or likes or supposedly loves he sees a future with her?

Answer 7

TheFlak38

yes. most guys. Give him one blow job and next week he's ready to propose.

Answer 8

DeJjj

But that really wouldn’t be love or like though just lust lol

Answer 9

TheFlak38

you don't know what love is for a man.

Answer 10

DeJjj

You’re right but I know that wanting to propose to a woman because she gave you top notch head isn’t love lol. If you would have said something different like her personality, the connection you guys have etc I wouldn’t have even said that.

Answer 11

TheFlak38

The majority of guys today are sad, miserable, desperate and thirsty they don't give a damn about any of those things. Personality? Connection? What's that? I have friends who destroyed their lives (literally) by getting married with the worst of the worst. The most repulsive woman they could find, full of daddy issues and what not. Why did they do it? Because she was the only one available. She spread her legs, the guy fell into her beaver trap, then the children came and then it's time to create problems out of nothing in order to bring up the divorce.

Answer 12

DeJjj

So still like I said that isn’t love. That’s just them settling for what or whoever.

Answer 13

DeJjj

I know a guy who dates a woman on all types of drugs. She drinks, smokes and pops pills almost every other day and she has also cheated on him and got a std when she did it but he’s still with her until this day. I wasn’t disagreeing with you. I mean like you said most young people both men and women don’t care for a connection etc if you good enough sexually and satisfying them they’re all for it but that doesn’t change the fact that isn’t what love is. What you said is just people wanting whoever wants them. Who gives them attention etc

Answer 14

TheFlak38

You have no idea what love is for a man. You will never understand because you have a vagina.

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