Is being a gentleman worth it?

[Cherokeehp]

If you’re doing it because you want to get something out of it then you aren’t actually a gentleman. Good people are good people simply because it’s the good thing to do. Some people have a strong sense of goodness, and others don’t. If you don’t then there’s no point in pretending to be a good guy. If you wanna be a douchebag just be a douchebag. Apparently there are women still out there that still date douchebags, so it’s not like you’d be missing out on anything.

[MzAsh]

A true gentleman is that way because he genuinely wants to be, not because he thinks he’ll get something out of it. Life isn’t like Hollywood. You can be a gentleman and still have fun in life. I guess it also depends on what you mean by fun.

[Browneye57]

You're confused as to what a 'gentleman' is. It's surely not boring, or lacking in fun.
Don't confuse 'nice' with 'kind', they're two different things. Nice is what dumb guys do to convince girls to let them in her panties.
A real man is polite, and kind, but strong and committed, actually going somewhere and being someone. There's nothing fake about it.
There might be some topics apropos here: www.theartofmanliness.com

[Arjunaguy]

Yes it is great experience especially when you help someone for no reason at all and the smile they give to thank you makes your whole life worthwhile. Then one day when you are in trouble and one of the people you helped sees you and help you that is how goodness works. But the importance here is the joy it brings to make someone smile.

[Alexandrubaschet08]

Depand what you want, people will be more firendly whit you and some girl will be more interested in you.
It will take time to buld that getleman reputation, you need to be clean all the time, dreas very good, act polit all the time.
In the old time people go to school or they wher instructed from a joung age to act like a gentleman or lady.

[NerdInDenial]

Being a good moral person only brings positive energy in your life. However, do not be fooled by others. There are many people who will try to take advantage of you. Always verify and be ready to cut ties from toxic people.

[AdithyaR]

Being a gentleman doesn't mean you can't have fun. It's just that you don't do anything immature or degrading in the name of fun.

I feel being a gentleman is worth it with the people that deserve it.

[MotorcycleMan]

There is never a reason not to be a gentleman.
I have no idea why you can't be a gentleman and have fun too.
Be a decent person and have fun. Those two are nowhere near mutually exclusive.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Depends on what you want in life. I say that yes it is worth it. But I always prefered to have girlfriends than hookups.

[coffeewithcream]

Always.
Being a gentleman is the most important thing in life.

[Iron_Man]

Yes it is but don't let people take advantage of your kindness

[Cryptic-Game]

Only if you are married. Otherwise, it is a waste of time.

[trickycrossiant]

You’ll find the right woman eventually if you do.

[Pejtu]

Not really
Sometimes only

[COMMODOREII]

Im a gentleman and i have a lot of fun. 😎

[Liam_Hayden]

You can be a gentleman and have a load of fun.

[Anonymous]

Fuuuck No!