How do you get closure to story that will never close?

[DizzyDesii]

I honestly just keep moving until the day finally comes. I didn't get closure from a lot of exes. But its only one guy i ever care to really get closure from and that was a childhood friend. Our parents got between us and i’ve been wanting to talk to him about the issue for over 10 years now. Until one of us mans up and meets up to discuss, inwill continue to move forward in life with new love and hope for the best between me and whoever that current person is

[Cynicaldreamer]

Unfortunately you're not always going to be closure. I know, it's not fair and it sucks, but people like that don't care.

See it as a blessing. Not what happened, but that they're no longer in your life. And use the lessons they taught you in future relationships or friendships.

[Jjpayne]

You have to just move past this. Stop playing a record with the same scratch or a CD with the same skip, just replace the record/CD and move on. It's time for something new

[COMMODOREII]

You have to move on. I've had to do it on many occasions. It is hard but it can be done.

[jennifer_bloom]

Get a journal and write a statement to yourself about how you will resolve things will be better next time - write a one page reflection on that and return to that over and over again

[RasmusAiken]

Don't ever expect closure. But do expect the day to come when you don't actually give much of a shit.

[In_Trance]

closure is overrated; just move on