Is there something wrong with me?

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So no matter how hard I try, it seems like I am not able to find love in my life. People tell me I am good looking, I'm have a good career (engineering), yet for some reason I've only had one relationship in my entire life. Like what is it with me, was I just born to watch others find love and happiness in my life.
Truth is people tell me wait, but what happens if I wait and still nothing.. Guess I'm just really fed up of being alone in my life.

Answer 1

Alyssa11 | 180 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

I know exactly what you mean. I have a great career (law), great friends, family etc but before I met my current boyfriend I had never been in a serious relationship before.

I think it's because we don't really just jump into relationships with anybody, for the sake of being in one. And that's a good thing, so no - there is nothing wrong with you.

Life is all about timing. One day, you'll just meet somebody on your wavelength and things will start making sense for you. Meanwhile, enjoy your life and try to be as extroverted as you can! Mix, mix, mix, and meet all different kinds of potential partners. When the time is right, you'll eventually find somebody who you will feel is worth being in a relationship with :)

I know, because I have been there.

Alyssa11

4 mo
Thanks for MHO! :)

Answer 2

Alyssa11

Thanks for MHO! :)

Answer 3

LeRetard

Xper 5

How hard are you trying, is the you should be asking yourself.

LeRetard

5 mo
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Asker

5 mo
Just trying. I
Asker

5 mo
It not like I'm overdoing it and coming off as someone who is desperate
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LeRetard

5 mo
Are you adjusting the right areas i. e physical build, qualities & etc.
Asker

5 mo
Fitness wise, yes. Like sure I don't have a 6 pack and stuff. I'm not overweight or underweight. I gym once a week, and three times a week its a 5 mile jog.

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LeRetard

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Asker

Just trying. I

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Asker

It not like I'm overdoing it and coming off as someone who is desperate

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LeRetard

Are you adjusting the right areas i. e physical build, qualities & etc.

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Asker

Fitness wise, yes. Like sure I don't have a 6 pack and stuff. I'm not overweight or underweight. I gym once a week, and three times a week its a 5 mile jog.

Answer 9

slatyb | 4.8K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

What have you done to make opportunities to meet someone? How many women do you even know to stay hello to? Have you tried online dating?

Asker

5 mo
Having woman to say hello to is not a problem. Approaching one is not a problem for me, its just the fact that I always get friendzoned or ghosted that hurts. The one relationship I was in.. She told me she loves me, than two days later she tried to friendzone me

Answer 10

Asker

Having woman to say hello to is not a problem. Approaching one is not a problem for me, its just the fact that I always get friendzoned or ghosted that hurts. The one relationship I was in.. She told me she loves me, than two days later she tried to friendzone me

Answer 11

Anonymous

Do you approach the girls you like? Or just sit and wait for them to make a move?

Asker

5 mo
I do. End up going out, I tell them I like them, than boom.. Friendzone
Opinion Owner

5 mo
How long does it take for you to tell them you like them?
Asker

5 mo
After speaking to several times, getting to know them. Usually within a week or two
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Opinion Owner

5 mo
Okay that’s too quick, I understand as a guy you catch feelings easily, But if you’re looking for a serious relationship try creating a bond. If the girl is not into seriousness then she won’t be reciprocating the same.

Also, there’s something sexy about efforts but make sure you keep your efforts sexy.
Asker

5 mo
I used to do that.. Than I always end up just being her friend while she ends up dating someone else
Opinion Owner

5 mo
You must be a man looking for a wifey type of girl, make sure you get to know if the girl you’re seeing is also into getting married one day.

While you’re seeing this someone just focus on your goals and yourself don’t just surround your whole world around them.
Asker

5 mo
A girl like that don't exist for me. Everytime I fail at it, it just ends up hurting so much more than the last time

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Asker

I do. End up going out, I tell them I like them, than boom.. Friendzone

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Opinion Owner

How long does it take for you to tell them you like them?

Answer 14

Asker

After speaking to several times, getting to know them. Usually within a week or two

Answer 15

Opinion Owner

Okay that’s too quick, I understand as a guy you catch feelings easily, But if you’re looking for a serious relationship try creating a bond. If the girl is not into seriousness then she won’t be reciprocating the same.

Also, there’s something sexy about efforts but make sure you keep your efforts sexy.

Answer 16

Asker

I used to do that.. Than I always end up just being her friend while she ends up dating someone else

Answer 17

Opinion Owner

You must be a man looking for a wifey type of girl, make sure you get to know if the girl you’re seeing is also into getting married one day.

While you’re seeing this someone just focus on your goals and yourself don’t just surround your whole world around them.

Answer 18

Asker

A girl like that don't exist for me. Everytime I fail at it, it just ends up hurting so much more than the last time

Is there something wrong with me?

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