Why do you think some beautiful girls get rejected by average/not so attractive young men?

[abc3643]

This is a good question and I have the answer...
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If you Google "Beautiful Girl Syndrome", that's basically saying that beautiful girls can be bitchier and high maintenance because guys are willing to put up with more because she is so beautiful. Guys won't put up with so much shit and work if the girl isn't so attractive.

"Beautiful Girl Syndrome Type 2" is a phrase I coined, but it's a real thing I discovered not quite 40 years ago. This will take some time to explain...

All guys need to feel that they can "win". They view things as something like a competition in which there is some goal that they want to achieve. If a guy wants something and he believes that there is SOME possibility that he may get it, he will get emotionally involved. If he begins to believe that he won't get that, then he begins to withdraw and get emotionally detached. However, sometimes a guy doesn't even think he has a chance, so he doesn't bother...

And this is where "Beautiful Girl Syndrome Type 2" comes in. If a girl is really beautiful, a regular guy thinks:
1. There are a zillion other guys who want her.
2. She almost certainly already has a boyfriend.
3. There is no way she'd be attracted to me; I am not anything special.
4. If she did date me, she'd dump me for some better-looking guy who will hit on her and there definitely will be such a guy.
5. She's going to be bitchy and high maintenance. (In other words, he's thinking she suffers from normal Beautiful Girl Syndrome.)

So, he basically thinks that
1) he doesn't have a chance to get her,
2) if he did, he'll lose her, and
3) she's going to be a lot of work.

Because oceans of guys think like this - the only exception being the hunky guys - the beautiful girl either can't find a guy or goes with dickhead hunky guys (who suffer from Beautiful Guy Syndrome). Of course, the regular guys see the beauties with the hunky guys and that just reinforces their belief that they don't have a chance...

Oh, and one more thing: Since the beautiful girls can get guys, they are getting laid... So, any new boyfriend has to "compete" against all of her past lovers and many guys don't think they are going to "measure up" (if you know what I mean) compared to those past hunky guys.

So, a beautiful girl needs to be proactive and hit on men instead of waiting for them to hit on her. A beautiful girl being proactive removes doubts males have regarding Beautiful Girl Syndrome Type 2.

[David_Kek]

Because many people who've never had to develop any character from getting their needs met by merely being lucky in the looks department their whole life, tend to be quite ugly on the inside.
When you've lived a life in which you've never actually had to try or learn anything other than additional superficial crap, life has a tendancy of slapping you back when you start to lose your looks and you start facing those guys you weren't interested in that spent the last 10 years making something of themselves and learning to see more than what's on the surface with people.
I mean, what's the point in settling down with an attractive women, who doesn't have anything to offer you because she's only capable of thinking of herself?

Short answer; some people see deeper and know better, that some people aren't as beautiful as they think they are.https://www.youtube.com/embed/4cMmbvhiogo

[btbc92]

Because it's not about looks and there is no law that says you have to date every person who is attractive. Everybody is free to do and date according to their own rules. They can not like one's personality, character, or how you carry yourself. Maybe they like myself don't agree with dating strangers but a close friend, or their not looking to date, is in a relationship, sense something is wrong or off about a person, God warned them to not pursue, they feel intimidated and don't like you, or refuse to date period because they don't want to. It's not that hard to figure out. People are just to egotistic and ignorant to not think and use their heads. Life isn't all about them.

[blank_expression]

Why waste a lot of time and energy on one narcissistic high cost/maintenance wench when I can get a half dozen average for the same price and less hassle. Let some other lucky guy get the beautiful girl.

[Anonymous]

that’s a pretty simple one. Young girls have “the illusion of choice”, therefore they will always aim for what they think is the absolute best and only about one percent of guys will ever reach that and generally speaking these guys are the douchiest biggest assholes there are and it’s only when a girl starts to lose her looks that she actually broadens her spectrum and decides to settle for a guy outside of her basic expectations

[hellacray]

There could be many reasons. Like she could be extremely annoying, maybe she has a toxic personality, or maybe she just seems disloyal like she will cheat on you the moment she finds someone better.

[Astarlessnightsky]

Maybe because they have the worst personality and are crazy as fuck.

[Luckycharms12]

Just because good looking doesn't mean you are a nice person or fun.

[magiusX26]

many have said a lot of why. let me add it's not just young guys either

[Therisinghero12]

Because attractiveness isn't everything, there's a lot of factors in picking a partner

[BestUserName100]

Because they want someone else and not you.

[bodukem]

Because personality matters more than good looks.

[worldscolide]

likely because they have shit personalities

[genericname85]

cause looks isn't all that matters.

[COMMODOREII]

The girls are high maintenance?