The Trumptards are nightmares.
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What a tight arse this guy was @1Sophisticatedme! He certainly wouldn't have received a 2nd date! 🤪
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@AmandaYVRSo very true.Even the worst weren't all that bad and they make for good material when you're performing "stand up" routines.My brother's tales about psycho women and girls with a bad tooth to gum ratio are hilarious. Bad dates are sometimes embarrassing, mostly just uncomfortable, but it's only for a few hours and then mercifully it's over.
@I-am-a-nobody Yep that's right. Good stories to tell.
@AmandaYVRSomeday you'll have to do a My Take on you're worst dates... complete with videos if possible. (ha ha)
he was trying to show interest in you. When going on a first date it is pretty much an interview of compatibility. Asking questions is how you get to know someone. If he's just talking about himself n not asking questions that's when u should be alarmed...
@Yads_Is_Back I think its fine if its someone from a dating application for a 1st date
@Imcmullan That’s the thing. People don’t know how to communicate and get to know people properly. Have a little charisma.For one thing, asking questions brings about verbal answers which really can be lies, lies, lies and not mean anything. Probably at least half the time, these verbal impressions on the first date turn out to be false anyway. The BEST way to get to know someone is to spend time around them and watch how they act. Like with a job interview, anybody can give a good impression that they’d be good for the job, but the employer doesn’t really know that until they actually start the job and see the performance.Making it an interview is an inaccurate and boring way of getting to know someone. Have a little charisma: strike up conversations and go do something together where you can see what kind of person they are. An interview over food won’t give you that; the most you will really learn is maybe their eating manners.It’s all a matter of knowing how to communicate effectively.
@Yads_Is_Back I agree with what you said but would spend the whole day with a guy on a 1st date? Basically what you are saying is 1st dates in a restaurant would be a waste of time because its not enough to see how they act
you're absolutely right! But from experience, I know first dates can be so nerve wrecking and asking question is a way to keep the conversation flowing. I myself become really nervous and can't show how charismatic I am on a first date. I've literally have warned people not to take the first date to heart bc my interactions with them on the first date isn't how I am lol. But I get your point. All im saying is dont rule it out when it goes that way.. instead try to see it as them putting forth effort. Whats worse is when they don't talk or simply talk about themselves. I've dated people and they wonder why I fall off the grid.. well, when all u do is speak of yourself, why would I want to date u? I had someone ask me to be officially when they didn't even know my last name.. where I was from.. etc. then they Said, ,"I thought we were getting to know one another well. " no, I was getting to know them not vice versa. Plus men think that asking questions means their being attentive.
@Jenny2000 A whole day would be nice if we are doing something fun. That would actually be perfect. That’s how you get to know each other.And yes, I think the restaurant thing is almost pointless - not completely but yeah for the most part.If you look at it from a job perspective, even most jobs that require education don’t just do an interview. They do either one of two things: require internship or make you do a task of the job while you’re at the interview. This is the performance part. I can tell somebody who’s hiring a history tutor that I’m great at history all day long, but just because I made A’s in the class doesn’t mean I can break it down and teach other people.So yes, you’re right.
@Yads_Is_Back I think I should have done that when I 1st met my boyfriend because we went on 7 dates before making it official because we didn't spend enough time together but however I wouldn't want the guy to kiss just because we spend the whole day together and it went well
Hopefully you told her to go fuck herself.
@supercutebutt in those words exactly to be honest