I have feelings for a guy who treats me like a sister. How do I make him to ask me out?

[btbc92]

You cannot make a person ask you out. If he doesn't see compatibility you will forever stay a friend until you show that you are the right kind of person in your life. Do you share the same sexual values? How about politically? Romantically? Familial? You have to look at all of this and have that TALK. NOT go out on dates. If you're not going to take it seriously because you refuse to have the 'courage' to ask him out, should that not be a red flag that you two are not compatible? He is not chasing you. Remember that.

[FelizHappy]

I’ve been in this situation too many times... sadly girl you can’t change anything :( If you truly think he sees you that way, then you can’t really change it.

[Myp005]

Maybe he might be feeling the same, you never know. He too might be scared of ruining the bond and thus not coming out in the open.

Try spending more time with him, go out together more, chat more and invest some time in him. If he might be having same feelings, there will be a time where he cannot handle it anymore and he'll confess. If not, try driving him the corner even further by stepping up your game.

[AmanoYin]

That's a tough one. You should tell him how you feel...

You can ask him to tell you but he might be in the same boat and don't want to ruin your relationship.
You can keep quiet but it'll eat you up.
You can ask his friends but he'll tell them, "he sees you as a sister even if it's not true." In this case you can't make him ask you out, you'll have to ask him.

[genericname85]

you stop telling yourself that you "don't have" whatever it takes. you tell him that you wanna try out dating, cause you've been feeling as if there may be more. if he doesn't wanna try, you know where you're at.

i know you don't wanna be rejected but you not being rejected doesn't mean he wants more from you, so the longer you wait, the harsher it will get.

[BenimKralligim]

I experienced it once. It was one of the worst things in the world ever. Cause if he or she says no that means you will also lose ur friendship. Life sucks. I told my feelings and sorry to messed everything up. Moreover, I told her that I didn't wanna see her anymore cause it was hurting me. After this girl, I make so many friends but never fall in love with any of them. I think it also depends on ur age and ur mentality 'cause I was dumb at that time. Maybe its been 9 years by the way.

[Matieux]

Instead of making him ask you out why don't just ask him out, don't give yourself excuse like "you don't have the courage", in life you must have courage to do and to get things that you want, if you don't have courage to fight for a thing that you want then you don't deserve it

So get some courage and instead or just sit here and pray for him to ask you out and do all the job go get some courage make the first move and ask him

[Elizabeth_Rose]

try to wear more sensual clothes with him, give him more attention and try to see if he feels comfortable with your physical touch, if it does not work then there is nothing to do

[potatoiswhoiam]

You can't force someone's feelings. That's the harsh truth

[AmeerX]

Use you phone and talk to him for a weak. And let your you face pics sedce him.

[Cowboy6666]

How old is he?
Aap mujhe follow karo me message karta hu apko udhar baat kartay he agar aap comfortable ho to

[fett253]

Ok, this may sound weird, but you two are already close from upbringing. Have you tried flirting with him or teasing to let on that there could be more?

[OceanMelon]

1. You can't make him do anything
2. You try asking him out

[Anonymous]

1. You don't make him do anything.
2. If you don't have the sack to ask him out then you really don't deserve him now do you.

[Siavash_1990]

Take his penis out and start sucking it, that's a start

[ILLuMiiNaTi]

You both grew up together and you are like brothers and sisters. Then why you wants only him... If he's not interested like you. Then go find some other guy. There are lots of guys in this world 😀😅

[Agem123]

You CAN NOT make him. You either tell him how you feel or leave it there.

[Broken_doll]

Call him one day when you're ready to go out. Then say, what are you doing? take me out tonight

[zagor]

If you know each others families maybe he feels it would be awkward to ask you out.

My female childhood buddy is now a meth head...

[RHK36]

Don't be afraid and ask him out. If you don't then you accept the situation.

[nodnol32]

Try dropping subtle hints.

[Jessie91331]

why dont you ask him out

[Maria_1090]

Why don’t you ask him out?

[Tunasub]

Ask him to be your neighbor 🤷🏾‍♂️

[ItsTheNephilim]

You can't. Ask him out yourself.

[Reamer]

Make him? Why not just ask him out your self?

[devil_8888]

Why don’t you ask him out?

[stickytoes]

Straight up tell him :)