Im the tactfully passionate kind haha
by the way you look like Russell Crowe
@Duchgirl97 tactful passion is a lost art in my opinion.And thanks! Unless you think Russell Crowe is ugly. I think he is ruggedly handsome!
I was raised by a older mom. She had me when i was 43. So i have that old school way of dealing with things i guess. And Russell Crowe is awesome and handsome! Especially in Gladiator
😘 you made my day for sure! Lol
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No i dont yell or scream. I get very serious about things and my voice and face change and I make a little intimidating eye contact.
Get rid of her man, life is too short.
Oh man! Id never hit my man
@Dutchgirl97 Bullshit you wouldn't hit a man.
I wouldn't, honestly. Id feel like a POS afterwards. If they hit me though. Yeah i would and have. But somehow still felt bad about it.
I still couldn't because how would I ever know for sure that I would not be beaten to a bloody pulp again or probably even killed since my last one beat me and threatened to neuter me too.
@Dutchgirl97 So you have had violent relationships in the past? Another reason to stay the fuck away from women like you. You love the drama of anger and violence.
Lol okay. Im sure accidentally walking into the bathroom while someone is going is a cause to get psuhed and smacked by a guy. I think you're the one who loves drama and anger. Considering thats all what your comments have consisted of.
@Dutchgirl97 Somehow I think there is more to the story.
Also because you say you wouldn't hit a guy does not mean anything because she told me she likes her man to be the man of the house but then took great pleasure in beating the hell out of me, threatening to pull important parts off of me, and treating me like total garbage, even to the point where if I tried to express my feelings she would shut them down before I finished expressing them and dismiss them as nothing.
@KrakenAttackin somehow i dont care what the hell you think. You stated you're opinion and thats all i care to hear from you.
Im sorry @DogEatsCat1973 thats not just a girl with a fiery attitude, thats someone who is abusive and shameful. Im sorry you had to go through that.
@Dutchgirl97 You don't get it. When a man is looking at a woman he is also thinking about how she would be a mother to his children. Women with violent tempers regularly abuse and kill their own children. No thanks.
She told me after every beating that she was sorry and promised not to beat me again but hen she beat me again and again. I could never be in a relationship with an angry woman again without fearing beatings even if she assured me she would not because words in the past meant nothing so how could I ever trust words again? If she even yelled I would be out the door in fear of my safety. From my past experience any sign of aggression from anyone else would have me hiding in a safe place from her and seeking to end the potential violent relationship.
Oh my gosh. you're taking this way too far. No im not abusive im passionate about things like politics, debates etc. And yes when I felt like I've been hurt by someone, strangers whomever. I tell them, without sugar coating it. Im assertive. Do I hit people out of rage? No. If i did i would get counseling because I know what abuse is. And no not just from "relationships" like you think. But im done having this conversation with someone who is not going to listen and will always assume that if you have a temper you will kill or abuse or whatever. Thats ridiculous and pathetic.
I am not trying to be rude to you I am just expressing why I could not enter into a relationship with a person with a hot temper. In fact because of the one who beat me I no longer find tall, thick, or redhead girls attractive like I used to. She beat me so bad that to this day if anyone even resembles her I feel great fear of them.
I went one day to hide from her temper at a bar, while she had a short girl in a pink sweater over who also yelled at me taking her side, at the bar I saw a big redhead and a short girl in a pink sweater and I was ready to run again but then one turned and I saw her face and it wasn't who i was hiding from, I still left because the resemblance made me feel uncomfortable.
Agreed. Im more talking about being assertive. I should have used that word instead. "Temper" causes a lot of negative responses such as prone to being abusive and a criminal etc.
I agree. Assertive would have been a better word.But it's your post! We follow what you mean
Having a temper and being abusive are different. Its like being confident or being a narcissist.
Your being a dumb, appeasing, cuck will only enrage her further. You cannot appease angry women, just don't allow them in your life.
Truth spoken, KrakenAttackin. Sorry, nodnol32, but you clearly have no idea what you're talking about
@RemoErdosain Thank you. There are too many men who think appeasing a woman when she is behaving like a three-year-old is the right thing to do.
Im not saying I'll be a hero for women with temper. You don't choose who you fall for. Also, anger management therapy can be considered. Overtime you learn what cools her temper or how to deal with. Just cause she has a temper problem doesn't mean she's a bad person.
Not at all