🤣 above your party grade lol funny... Not dating anyone... Did work with someone like that once, why couldn't stay friends... Lost too much respect, but your description fits that person to a tee🤣... So yeah if won't be friends with someone like that, definitely wouldn't date or be in a relationship like that... This question more dishes by all the gender bashing on here... Cuz I always think " who would wanna be in a relationship with you if that's your views/attitude" .. So had to ask would people really wanna date people like that... And as the answer has mostly been more no, by both sexes...1. Shows men and women more on the same page with more things than people claim... And2. Maybe it's the attitude about the opposite sex that's the problem why can't find or keep a relationship.. Not cuz "all' men or "all" women are bad and evil smh
*sparked not dishes.. What the heck lmao
Exactly all the women bashers on here I always pray they ain't got daughters or never do have
These men are the reason women have daddy issues
Actually, I knew someone like that IRL tried to blame all females for everything. Couldn't even be friends with someone like that... Much less would I date someone like that. And, I've seen some women on here do that, but I see way more men on here doing it... And they don't just stop at bashing females, they bash their own gender -white Knight, etc. Point is, noone should be assuming or bashing someone just because they're a man or a woman. People just need to grow the "F" up
You might be right. But you incriminate yourself with the statement "i see more men on here doing it". I see just the opposite. Now we both can't be right. I think you get what i'm driving at. At least i hope you do. I'm trying to say your statement is biased without starting a fight. 😁
No it's not... I'm not biased about men... But it ain't women jumping on EVERY post I post no matter WHAT the topic is and try to start women bashing. Didn't Say "ALL" men do that... Nor would I... There's some really awesome guys and gals on here... My experiences with that that I CAN BACK UP WITH PROOF... Is not a bias... it's what I've personally experienced on here.. And didn't say NO WOMEN on here do it... I've seen posts aimed at putting men down... And I don't approve any more than I do when it's men doing it...
You're right my mistake you're not biased you just created " would you date someone who constantly bashes the opposite sex then say men are the more guilty gender, i have proof". But you're not biased. I'll give you this BBB i do believe your trying to bridge rhe gap. a lot of women want to do nothing on here but make all men out to be the enemy based on their limited experience.
Thanks... But just to clarify, I didn't say more men do than women... I said I've Personally Experienced and from what I've personally seen on here... In real life-knew only ONE man like that... So I'm not saying who does it more, cuz that would be an assumption
Why can't we get this across to the young who need this knowledge the most? When I was young I yearned to learn from my elders... another thing lost on the young.
Unfortunately, social media and "news" media continue to have a much greater impact on youth. It is the societal ill which we are not yet addressing.
I agree 💯 once again living up to your username,(salutes, I'd curtsy but old bones here 🤣) but so so true this here
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But still can't stereotype by gender... Not all men think feel act the same, same as women... My first hubby was a insecure jealous controlling physically abusive person... PERSON... now how fair would it be for me to say you must be like that or all men are... It wouldn't cuz that's bullshit... Just like all women cheat, just want men for what they can get out of them... That's not discussion, that's false accusations against a whole gender
It's a conversation to have, to show that it's b. s. both people being open and receptive. With a close minded jealous controlling person that's not possible. But I feel that you might have a point, that even simply discussing it encourages stereotypes
this isn't a gender stereo type. it was a question asked of how men felt of gender bashing women. it can be turned the other direction, however your response seems to show personal issues you need to deal with
@RevScott umm no it wasn't... This was about ANYONE bashing the opposite gender... Don't turn my question into something it wasn't!!
@RevScott I think you really need to reread the question but here:Would you date someone who constantly bashes the opposite sex? So obviously that means BOTH MEN OR WOMEN who do this...
Couldn't a said it better myself 👍👍♥️♥️ love this answer
Thank you.Even if everyone was the same, people would still find some way to label others.
Well said and hit it out the park with that one 🙂🙂
Thank you, my friend.
No thank you for always having wise answers 🙂
🤣"A winky"lmao... But totally agree here 💯
thanks... i like to say it with humour where i can lol
My daughter used to say Ding Ding, 🤣
kids say the funniest things... there's an idea for a tv show right there... oh no maybe not if bill crosby is to host it
🤣🤣 right... but she was 19 saying that
ah far too old for bill then lol
🤣🤣🤣 that's a good thing lol was kinda sad cuz I grew up watching Bill Cosby.. Fat Albert
in the uk we had rolf harris who was the friendly kids entertainer... mt sister was on one of his shows. years later we were pleased to fined she hadent been abused by him when he was jailed for kiddy fiddling
Well that's a blessing!! It's sickening to find out all the people that were looked up to as good role models were nothing but pedophiles.. And kinda scary at the same time
the irony here in the uk was that the one guy who played a pervert, benny hill, turned out to be the only 70s entertainer that wasn't a peadophile or rapist
Yeah that's truth...
Yeah if they talking bout personal experience, that's one thing... But as long as they don't treat you like shit because of what other men have done... She should treat you the way you treat her... She shouldn't test you like a dick unless you behave like one
Yes i would agree on that. She shouldn't just treat me or any other guy bad just cause others have been. But i wouldn't really mind if she said stuff bad about men longs if ain't too far gone...
You're nicer than me then cuz I feel should only talk about the ones you know... Can't judge people you don't know cuz that's assumptions and usually unfair ones at that
I always see judgement's as guidelines kinda, if you always have the mindset in your head it's much easier to see red flags. People usually say it's wrong assuming but that's what were supposed to do that's kinda how we protect ourselves it's legit the whole point of red flags. So my thing is longs if you keep them judgement's in your head and don't act on them until your sure that person is or not.And if it was my partner she could be open with her feelings around me to say her judgments about people or whatever it is because as partners we would share thoughts. Longs if she don't take them judgement like the word of god i really don't mind.
If most guys you have met are dicks, we have t look at the common denominator,,, and that, is YOU.
Maybe so, but wouldn't you be a dick to me by calling me dick? Proving that another guy i just interacted with was a dick in my personal experience.
And nah just legit most guys i've met have been such as my ex bestfriend who cheated with my ex on me. Or guys who hurt my female friends. Just seem to get along with females better shrugs
@RevScott haha First didn't say men, said people this hypothetical post... But love one more person try throw insults out. For what? To make me look bad? Lol make you look smart? It really doesn't. Makes you look childish... And exactly my point... My marriage lasted twenty years.. He wasn't a dick, her just had one... Not everyone who has one is one, but there are some that are... Gee wonder what camp you're in 🤔🤣This was mostly cuz see it mostly on here... I don't have that issue in my personal life... But thanks for replying 🙂🙂
Think this might be MHO here 👍👍 Well said my friend!!! Couldn't a said it better myself ♥️🙂
Thank you ❤
So agree!!! That's why I try to stay away from those posts on here, whether it's a man or woman doing it...
I on the other hand go and comment under this posts that the person who posted them has some mental problems to solve.
🤣🤣🤣 right!! But they too mental for it to sink in.. they'll just say you a feminazi 🤣🤣
I agree.. and evil is by person not gender
@Guardian45 don't know if replying to my response or Laurie's but thanks anyways 🙂🙂
@Guardian45Yes, we'll both thank you, so you're covered :)
Right lol it's a two for 🙂
Exactly and same here
Right... Very well said!!!
I really ♥️♥️ love this answer 👍👍🙂
ain't this the truth..
Agree there. Plus, if someone constantly blaming a whole gender for their issues, it shows a lack of their accepting their own accountability
Well said. A victim mentality is always self-destructive. Not to mention a turn off
Omg so so agree there... You get more likes 👍👍👍👍 lol
No thank you sir 🙂 like to see people who get it... Women ain't the problem, men ain't the problem... People with their bias and bitterness are the problem
Well said! Very well said.I'm tired of the victim Olympics. Everyone is making themselves out to be a poor lost soul who just needs society to treat them like a princess and and everything will be okay.And you're right. It's very refreshing to see people who get it
Very well said as well!! That victim mentality is getting so tiring, no wonder my energy level been low, Vitamin D deficiency my ass... Think it's stupidity and ignorance that's draining me 🤣
Haha, there is a lot of that going around!! And I am learning that of I stop focusing on other's idiocy, then I get less drained
Yeah that's true!
I hope you get your energy back
You and me both... But thanks 🤗
You bet 😊
🤣 right 👍👍♥️ love that answer... I always say I'm a lover not a fighter
Well yeah.. There's jokes and then there's real sexist men and women... Those types I stay away from
It comes from both sides.. So would you be okay hanging around men who constantly bash all females? I won't date a gender bashers but won't be friends with one either... Whether it's men bashing all women or women bashing all men...
well... I don't know anyone who bashes females, except maybe on here. I guess it depends on what bashing is to you. talking bad about a woman's driving, or their complaining, I see as kin to women talking about men as dogs and sharing personal details he wouldn't agree to.
'All women gold digger""All women overly emotional""All women hate sex""All women just expect a free meal and money from men""All men are losers""All men are weak""All men will use you for sex""All men are cheaters'That's gender assuming and gender bashing... Save it and say it for personal experiences not people you don't know
I think a lot of people discuss their personal lives and relations using crass language. I doubt you're perfect in this area either - I know I'm not. But, I suppose if I was hanging out with men who spoke of women as servants, or house slaves, or have their "place", then those would kind of be pretty big red flags. I met these two guys once, where the first thing they said to me was bragging about having sex with a woman while the other guy was steeling her belongings. I was absolutely horrified and never spoke to them again. [shrugs] I think there's a limit.
With that we can agree... I had a female friend that was screwing to guys who worked so same place, just different shifts... She wouldn't even shower in between... One would be leaving and one would be arriving, they probably passed each other on the street... So she let the one perform oral after the other had already "finished" the deed... Then when other dude left she yells me she was going to ask J***how M*"*taste... That's some nasty shit... So yes I know there's some trifling his out there, but it's when you judge all women based on her actions... Cuz I sure the fuck would never do that to someone... The more you assume to know someone just based on gender or gender bias the less you will actually really know the "real" person... Way I see it anyway 🤷🏼♀️
Exactly well said!!
👍👍 That's good! Make or female doing it, it wrong... People need to grow the F up
@Brainsbeforebeauty I've been Bullied, and had some haters all my life, so I know how it feels!! I won't put up with that with some 'friends' judging, and saying things!With my friends, it is ASSUMED, that anyone that one of us loves, dates, or just calls friend, is part of the group, or 'extended family' without question!! Being accepted and introduced, is acceptance, always!!MAJOR FAIL, if one has an issue or judges, or hates!! Not good! Bro Code!
That's good 👍
I hear you and agree 💯 blame the people that hurt you personally, kinda stupid to blame a whole gender... And half the time people don't even speaking from personal hurts, rather just jumping on the gender bashing bandwagon... I go by the person and their personal actions... Have I known bad men, yes... But also known some really great ones, do yeah don't wanna hear all men are bad, cuz so not true... Just like there's some great women... And yeah have known some women that weren't, had a female friend/roommate move in with me and hubby and she was having one guy leaving and the other one coming, they worked at same place, different shifts... That's some fucked up shit there... Yeah kicked her ass out... She was bad bad fucked up individual
Yeah you get it... I couldn't even stay friends with someone like that... Killed my respect for him all together, well that and the fact everything he accused women of being.. He was...🤷🏼♀️ but ain't that usually how it goes lol
I had a roommate over the winter like that and I HATED him because he was constantly talking shit about women. I basically had to act like I agreed with him so he wouldn’t kick me out or make things awkward.
His loss not yours.. Don't need negative people like that in your life
Right... I knew someone like that.. Couldn't even be friends with someone like that, much less would I ever wanna date someone like that
And there's lots of men on here bashing women
yeah those guys just suck.. they are bitter men who can't get women..
Maybe that's why 🤔🤔 maybe women ain't the issue.. Maybe it's the way they see, think, talk about, treat women that's the issue... Cuz I wouldn't ever date a man that thinks all women crazy, stupid, gold digger, slut just good for sex, I'm sure I'm forgetting some 🤔 oh yeah,,... Totally to blame why relationships/ marriages fail... Not a good way to get women to want to date you 🤷🏼♀️
That last part is s touchy subject for me because of the statistics behind divorce.. Keep in mind i am not bashing women here... Just stating what the statistics and study says.. 80% of all divorces are initiated by women, and the vast majority are for two reasons. Reason one they dont want to remain faithful. Reason Two, They are bored.. Now weather that is their fault i have no idea, from the other side of he coin, 80 % of all divorced men had no idea a divorce was coming, they literally had no clue, no warning signs, no communication.. No attempts at reconciliation..In this day and age both genders throw relationships away like they are worthless.www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/ifstudies.org/.../lets-stop-blaming-men-for-divorce-a-response-to-harry-benson
Its all in who you choose. I married a small town conservative girl who values marriage and family above all because her parents were the same.
See people keep saying that... Yet IRL I personally know 3 females being cheated on, fucked around on, being played with... So guess that's touchy for me too, cuz what I'm hearing and seeing is different... Men on here acting like it's the women cheating... It's PEOPLE cheating... And my husband cheating, I'm getting divorced... My husband physically abuses me I'm getting divorced... I don't go off statistics... I go off what I see🤷🏼♀️
I go off of both..I lost my brother to suicide because a woman chose to file for divorce on the grounds he was abusive. She accused him of being a child molester and a rapist. He was arrested. He proved her wrong, but because of that accusation he lost his home, his vehicles, his job, literally everything he owned. The house alone had been in our family 200 years.. All given to the ex. He was ordered to pay alimony and child support to the tune of 4500 per month. When he was working he was only making 2500 per month, he earned a bonus one month and they used that to calculate his support payments. When he requested to have it modified he was told to get a second job.. All because of false accusations.. All because of the bull shit she did.. Oh and less than two weeks after she divorced him she was in bed with another man, and engaged.. I found my brother in his apartment, with a bullet wound in his head and a note stating he gave up.. So please dont tell me women are innocent here. It goes both ways. Its disgusting.
Oh and i will add that the bitch still lives in the home she stole from our family.. and i have made it my personal mission to make her life hell.
I'm so sorry for that... But that still don't show all women that way...My mom's first husband beat my three older sisters , one with a hair brush when she was just a baby, then ran off with my mom's best friend... Her second , my father, molested me and 3 of my 4 sisters, my mom was still going to stay by his side, but he used her support and his family's political connections to avoid any jail time and then dumped her for a new women... Everyone's got real stories... I still ain't gonna say all men guilty... You can't let what one horrible women did bias you... That's not fair to you or other women who aren't that way
Oh and for the courts always on the side of the female not the man, my father didn't EVER serve jail time for what he did...
I dont disagree. I am a member of TFRM though because of what happened to my brother.. (the fathers rights movement).. The same goes for you though, you can't let one interaction with a man color how you see all men.. I dont do that my self. I am just saying that both arguments are valid in a way. And when it comes to courts 90% of all custody cases end with the father becoming just a weekend dad and the mother having full custody and child support.. One would think this is a bias against males. It both is, and is not. If you read the text of Title IVD. For every dollar of child support collected by the state and For every dollar of Alimony and spousal support collected by the state the state earns 2 federal dollars. Most states rake in hundreds of millions of dollars off of the backs of fathers that have become nothing more than a visitor in their child's life. Additionally divorce lawyers have been caught on camera encouraging their clients to use the "Silver bullet defense" which includes making false accusations against their ex husbands. The system is disgusting and needs a massive overhaul, but as long as the state make so much off of collecting money from fathers who have no choice in the matter, it will never change.
Okay we found to have to disagree on this one... I personally know a lot of men that ain't paying Jack shit in support whether court ordered or not... And why should men not have to support their children? And I don't judge all men... I'm not blaming all divorce on men... And if more men willingly supported their children courts would of never had to get involved... I'd the system flawed yeah, just like the government is just like the criminal system is... But court appointed child support was first created because men were leaving their wives who had no education, no job, stay at home wives with no money for another woman, and thought that excited them from supporting their children
Sorry for typos lol tryna cook lol
ooh whatcha making?On a side note, those that aren't paying are in the minority..
https://time.com/3921605/deadbeat-dads/Of the 367 lower income, noncustodial dads studied in three different cities, only 23% gave what the courts would recognize as child-support through the system, but 46% contributed in-kind support and 28% gave cash straight to the mom, says the study, which is the first to look specifically at the more informal ways dads try to look after their kids.Many sociologists believe that the current system of child support payments often leads mothers to deny fathers access to their children until they have paid what they owe, thus souring the relationship between all three. Indeed, the study found that fathers who did not visit their kids gave only about half as much in-kind support as those who spent at least 10 hours a month with them.from the article.. Not all deadbeat dads are deadbeat dads..
From the reading i have done at the national level its close to 16 to 18 % of fathers actually do nothing to support, and 82% do..
Ok again what you read... I'm going by 2 of my sisters exes oh wait all 3, I'm there only one that had a man that supposed his kids and oh, it wasn't my sisters that denied visitation.. It was kids waiting on dads that didn't show up to take them for the weekend like promised... Oh and my friends ex, that his open kids won't have anything to do with him now that they see what he's about cuz now that they shits he hitting his kids up for money even tho he didn't support them.. Oh or my daughter's son's father who don't work out support his kid even tho my daughter does and doesn't deny him visitation... For someone who says he don't bash women I'm sorry.. But it's kinda starting to sound that way... On side note... Making lemon and herb chicken
*now that they adults sorry I'm a sucky swiper lol
yeah there are some terrible fathers out there.. just most aren't like that.
And there's terrible mom's out there, but most aren't like that
Why be critical of people you don't know or how... Specially based only on gender... Be critical, hold to certain standards people you KNOW... anything else is assumption... Unless you know someone, you don't know enough to be judging them.. And why would you anyway? Fix your own flaws instead of assuming judging others 🤷🏼♀️
I don't have any flaws.
Sure okay.. Everyone does... NOONE'S perfect... And if you think you are, isn't that a flaw right there? 🤔
No, I don't think it is.I didn't say I never had flaws, only that I don't have flaws at the moment.I used to have many flaws, but I tend to go great lengths to try to understand my ego and both the good and the bad things that motivate it, and when I do find something rotten about me I work on fixing it.You could say that it is a flaw, but that's just a difference of opinions. I don't deem anything I do as unjust or undesirable.You don't seem to deem your virtue signalling as a flaw, I would, but then again, difference of opinions.
Having virtues is a flaw 🤔 oh okay... Guess so is having morals 🤣 well then, I'm flawed 🙂
Me personally, I'll pass.. ain't gonna be "loving" (wink wink ) on someone who hating on all females... Rather that with someone who's not so filled with hate
Or incapable of respecting you as well, if don't respect any women... Same goes for women who do that to men
Exactly... Or Everytime you don't agree, it's cuz you a man or cuz you a female.. No maybe you just wrong lmao
But how could you love someone who don't respect any man? A relationship like that won't work in the long run
It's not much different than me. I constantly bash men all the time as well because we're freaking stupid.
Some lol but not "all" men are stupid... 🙂
Ha... good one! I agree as I'm a damn Yankee from Upstate. Lol
@MickiNotMouse lol sorry to hear (as I type this wearing a Red Sox shirt)... I'd mentioned 2004 but I wouldn't want to ruin your day... ooopps... sorry :)I think sports team jabbing and competitive spirit stuff is really great - and I take it even better than I give... there are, unfortunately, some folks who take it way too far and get angry and violent etc but overall it's healthy :)How people take that same approach with folks of different genders, races, religions, sexual orientation, etc... is beyond me.
True words there!!👍👍 but so easier to blame/bash a gender than take personal responsibility 🤷🏼♀️
If that ain't the truth right there. 👍👍🙂
Please do lol... I'd love to hear that answer
Agree 💯 well, I don't date females, but wouldn't be friends, hang out with someone hating on/bashing all men. There's a lot of decent guys out there.
🤣 right lmao
Unless they hold out hope that "you" are the exception, but they just need someone to rag to.
Exactly... Or any disagreement... It's typical male, user that bias to always paint you in the wrong... I knew a guy that did that... It's his mom's fault, any female's fault, blah blah... On social media whining bout women using men for what they can get out of them... Yet IRL was trying to live off not one but two females in a year's time... So all women are bad, butt they bailing your sorry ass out 🤷🏼♀️🤣
Who said I'm trying to? Asking a question isn't trying to change people... It's sharing opinions about an issue there's a lot of on here...🤷🏼♀️
I know that I am not saying anything against you I mean in general if I say negative stuff about men. Nobody really wants to hear that and it is a turn off to people.
If it's from personal experience and you talking about that negative experience that's one thing. But yeah noone should want to hear all men being talked about negatively because if the actions of others. Same for women. For example there's a few asshat men on here that can't do nothing but attack and try insult (which just makes me laugh) but there's more nice, cool guys on here., so it would be wrong for me to say or think all men on here asshats just cuz of the few that are...
💯 agree... life to short to waste on that BS
So agree here and also with the jokes.. You'd know if you saw my"jokes" takes..🤣
Why are you replying with a question about my question 🤷🏼♀️
Because I can
Sure sweetie okay 🙂🙂
Omg same... Why the post... Men and women who do this need to just stop it people... Or least stop whining noone wants em cuz maybe that's a big reason why... Their shitty attitude 🤷🏼♀️
Agree... Negativity is draining... Ain't got time/energy for people like that
Agree... And same for all the women bashing men.. They might as well be gay then
Totally agree brains
I agree 💯
Right and save as the men that bash all women
Come on now... Not just women doing the bashing... And men who bash all women will die alone with nothing but their blow up doll or female robot for company 🤣
@BrainsbeforebeautyI am comfortable with the idea of dying alone. I have to be.As a former soldier, I am comfortable with death. I have seen it up close.If there is an open casket at my funeral, there will be a line of people who will want to drive a stake through my heart. . . just to be sure.
Thank you for the service to your country sir... And I've seen it up close when my husband died on my kitchen floor...
@BrainsbeforebeautyOn the kitchen floor.That was harsh.Heart attack?
Complications due to lots of health issues heart, kidneys, diabetes...
But if they have no respect for men, how they gonna respect you? And respect is important in a relationship
If I'm in a relationship with someone I 100% believe they respect me and I also believe you're not going to get in a relationship with someone you don't respect or someone who you believe don't respect you granted it does happen but that's just my take on it if someone really hates man but they seek me out then I have no choice but to believe that they care about me and respect me I will try to do an example you have some women that hate men but they love their father and brother and for guys who hate women but love their mother sister daughter etc
Good points... But not always in every case
Call out the wrong done on both sides, agree... But still by personal experience... Hell I do that.. I had a friend that was horrible to guys she dated, she was fucked up individual, had a make friend that was the same way... But have also had great male friends and female friends.. for Relationships, had one bad man and one good man...
Nah cuz you can't blame a whole gender by the actions of some, same as race, same as someone's profession, etc... There's so different types of bad people and all different types of good people... Why I just get to know the person and base it off them and their actions...
You're right there isgood and bad in people regardless of race, religion etc. I'm just saying that blokes in general do. actually I don't really know what I saying lol. its late here
Lol well go to bed 🙂
Sweet dreams 🙂
You... Not all men... Noone should act like they know everything bout everyone... Not all men totally think/act the same... Not do all women...
Exactly feel same bout men who do that to women... I ain't gonna even be friends with people that bash all men or all females... Much less anything else
Cuz IT'S just females? Then how you explain all the men bashing women on here 🤔... My whole point is maybe don't bash ANYONE you don't PERSONALLY know... people worry so much about other's flaws when they should worry more about THEIR OWN 🤷🏼♀️
True, but still, feminism is destroying the world.
Gender Bashing is destroying relationships, racism is destroying, well whatever pandemic don't... 🤷🏼♀️
Ignorance is destroying the world
Still no excuse tho to blame a whole gender for what you been through
Both genders are guilty of that. And the gender in between is guilty of blaming everyone lol
Same... It's not okay for women to do that to me anymore than when men do it... You calling all men losers or whatever well that's bullshit... My first husband was... My second wasn't... He was one of the strongest, bravest men I ever personally knew and a great father! So you say all men, to me you disrespecting the great men out there... You say"all" women you disrespecting me and all the good females out there just cuz of the shit ones... Don't treat me based on assumptions of all females, treat me the way I deserve to be treated for the person I am
If you care about the person I can understand but after awhile may be a good idea to tell tht person that you care about if it's someone you don't know who gives a shit otherwise it's you that has problems
Thia has always bothered me when I was much younger wow Id bash alovt but now I try to encourage others to try not to do so
That's good 😥🙂
That was supposed to be a thumbs up not crying emoji lol
Right!! I agree.. If you hate all women, umm I ain't gonna be your friend much less "F" you, much less date... And same, if women hating on all men they might as well date a female then 🤷🏼♀️