Is this the same for sexual partners and serious relationship?
Yes. Here’s a bit of reality... whether they have only slept with one before you or one-thousand, there is no less risk of them disease or emotional trauma or emotional disconnect. So why ask? If this is so important to someone, They are likely better served by finding someone who has lived their lives in bubble as even virgins can be exposed to trauma and disease. In which case, may as well just remain single. Another thing... both men and women lie. Men and women when asked that question will lie about their answer. I know as I have known women who tell me they do because how they get perceived. So if both are lying, why ask? How are you going to verify their response anyway? It is ridiculous to ask at all... poor character.
What if they never bring it up? Would you care?
Nope not at all. I mean i would get curious after a bit since well ever girl i've met kinda do well all humans tend to open up about there past without asking. But honestly that's fine by me.
Ok, good to know. Sometimes we want to forget our past relationships since they clearly did not last and ended for a reason
Yup 100% get. No one is obligated to tell me stuff if they don't want too and we all have are own reasons and they maybe not be bad ones. Only time i would find it wrong if it will personally impact Right now. Cannot think of any examples but they could be a reason for that. I am sure some guys tho would find it odd tho and maybe see it as a red flag but i cannot speak for them.
Sure, if the past baggage is heavy, sometimes it's necessary to bring it up in order to more forward. But if someone asks out of nosiness and keeps nagging thats just annoying.
Yeah that's kinda pushy wouldn't be with anyone like that lol
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