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there have been some dates! and loooooots of texting between dates haha :p I think i am nosy so... you got that right good sir
;p mm sounds like good listening skills! Thank you for the very sound advice
No prob. I was half joking about the "whike thinking about something else" part but some people just get soo long winded with their stories you just start letting your mind wander
Mhm I agree. And it doesn't help when you dont have an attention span for shite :p
:p ok karin
Oh the probably burnt. I was like she's right but then I read her name and It all made sense... Lol
I dont have the patience for paragraphs when I'm ranting:p
And I am not a "Karen!" Just pointing out that if you write walls of text, you will have less interaction because it is too much to read.
Good point. I will keep that in mind for my next post 😊
Yep I've heard haha I already had this convo with karin ;p
1. Dating apps are for losers. The only people there are the ones that can't form basic relationships with the people they come into contact with in their daily lives. The vast majority of women there are looking for attention and validation, with ZERO intention on ever actually meeting up with anyone, let alone dating. The vast majority of guys are there looking for a hook up. So they don't give two shits about your feelings or what you have to say. Just just want to fuck. 2. If your social skills are lacking then brush up on them. They are learned. I can give you a homework assignment. 3. You're trying to establish a relationship with an entity that just wants in your panties. 4. 16-17yo boys have zero game, so conversation is the ONLY thing they've got. And you thought that was genuine. No, it's just lack of ability to get you to into bed. 5. Online is a giant fail. Ya got nuthin' there. It's like being pen pals. FAILYou are clearly naive, with zero understanding of the real world. You're in a fantasy la-la-land of puppy dogs rainbows and pink unicorns. Sorry toots, it's just not like that. You're going to need to date up a bit, maybe a lot. Guys brains don't even fully form 'till about 25. So introduce yourself to some MEN, then date and get to know, just don't have sex with them all. You'll find one that is worthy of your time and attention, one worthwhile, that's a match. And this is why we DATE in the first place. Love can't start 'till attraction does, and then there needs to be a conversation.
Oh i didn't expect this.. thanks for responding anyway tho c: I never get the "yo I wanna fucc" vibes from the guys i talk to... but maybe I don't know what those look like anyway 😆 thanks for the advice <3... and the homework assignment hehe
You need to understand guys are driven by their testosterone - the sex-drive hormone. They have some 15-25 times as much as you do, and they will say and do ANYTHING to get in your panties. At 19 you simply just haven't figure this out yet. Ah, the homework assignment... developing social skills. From now on, everywhere you go, everyone you run into in your daily comings and goings, try striking up a conversation. Get good at drawing people out. Most just love to talk about themselves. Learn probing questions, be interested. This way when mr. right comes along you won't have any trouble striking up a convo and keeping it going.
If thats all guys are interested in then they sound even more boring than I thought
Yes it is that simple
I don't think the kind of guys I talk to are really that much into sports 😝at least not enough to make their top 3 interests
Maybe change the type of guy you attract
So I can be forced to sit through and talk about sports? 😝no thanks
Well right now covid has those talks on lock down
Ooo right.. sounds like the perfect time to date then :p
You probably get. more action lol