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Some of us DO approach and initiate towards guys. And we get rejected too! Rejection just sucks no matter how nicely the other person goes about it.
@Cynicaldreamer I have always given women who approached me at least one date :)
So you give them one date even if you're not interested in them? That is so cruel.
lol how can I I know if I am interested in them or not if I don't even know them? That's what dates are for.I'm not too picky with looks so the vast majority of women should be able to attract me if they practice basic hygiene and whatnot.
@Juxtapose You are one of the very few exceptions! I get friendzoned usually, lol
@Cynicaldreamer If a woman can get the guy's dick hard and she's fun to be around, he doesn't have anything to complain about really in my opinion.
"If a woman can get the guy's dick hard and she's fun to be around, he doesn't have anything to complain about really in my opinion."Well damn...Considering how many times I've been rejected or friendzoned, I'm sensing I may not be attractive 😑
just dont reject the guy based on something personal or targeting his insecurities. Other than that use anything you have lol
Would it make any difference if she said something else? It shouldn't matter why someone is rejecting you. I lied about having a boyfriend so many times, but I don't care. It's the easiest way and it kind of makes sure for him not to push for it anymore. And I think it's the best kind of rejection because then you know 100% there's no hope and you can move on. I like when guys I hit on tell me they have girlfriends (even if it's a lie).
Well that's the thing I would prefer women to tell me why she's really rejecting me. If you're not interested just say so. Or if you're not ready for a relationship just let me know. Not every guy is going to keep pushing on just because you don't make up some fake boyfriend. And besides I'm sure there's guys out there that would find it very hard to get a glue even if you do mention a fake boyfriend.
What, no! Everyone likes being approached. Even when we don't feel the same, we feel special and grateful. I respect every guy who ever approached me, literally hat down. I only feel sad because I don't feel the same, I wish I could feel the same.
Then how come so many women here complain about being approached too much.
@zagor I don't know of any woman complaining about it. We do however complain when fuckboys approach rudely with obvious sexual, disrespectful offers (and then they don't give up). But I assure you that even they make us feel empowered, no matter what we say.
OK, so say you work in a restaurant, and there are always a lot of 50 year old guys asking for your number, you would like that?