Simple question, just something I don't really understand.
There is this guy who I work with. He gets along really well with all my workmates and I and id consider us to be friends, even though I'm pretty sure he's had a crush on me for years. Whenever we talk one on one, things are fine, yet when another 1 or 2 workmates step into the conversation, his eyes dart back and forth between theirs, completely skipping over me, or only looking at me for half a second. Or sometimes he will focus his attention on someone else, and I feel totally left out of this conversation.
Basically I just want to know why some guys do this? I don't really understand.. As dumb as it is it sorta hurts me a little, so I'm wanting to get some clarity so I won't be so offended next time it happens.. Thanks!
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Crushes don't last years. And if that's what you think, why does it seem like there were absolutely no advances made from any sides?
It's a group conversation. Of course he looks at everyone else as well.
Also, if he's fine in one-on-one convos then he's not nervous.0