Thank you for MHO :-)
Yes you only fall in love once and only the one you love the most can hurt you the most. I genuinely think if I lose my boyfriend of six years I will NEVER love again. It’s not possible. I don’t even want to think of giving his place to anyone. Nobody can have his place. I only love him and will love him till after I die if that’s possible.
When you love someone and it ends, you may feel that your life has ended and you will never find anyone else. Certainly no one "takes the place" of your first love, but eventually your heart will not feel so heavy and pained. Eventually, you will be ready to date again, and then you will meet someone who is special on different ways. It won't be like your first love but it will still feel very special and, eventually, you may feel that you want to spend the test of your life with this new person.None of that lessens the importance of your first love.
I’m not the kind of person who moves on in life. Even years later I live my life with the memories of yesterday. If me and my boyfriend break up or anything happens I will never move on from him. I will live with our memories and he says the same. I’m lucky to have found someone like me. We both feel emotions very deeply. We both have REALLY sharp memories so we remember every moment we spend together. Some people can move on and make space for new things in life, while some will live with candles of memories on their eyelashes. I am one of those people who has always chased memories and I am happy in doing so. I don’t have any interest in having anyone else in my life. I believe I should only have one man in my life and that’s it.
Good luck! I hope the relationship is always everything that you want it to be.
Thank you 😊 I hope you are always happy too.
Thanks for MHO!
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