I’m not interested in dating him and he doesn’t want to date me. My height is a big issue for him. We are better as friends but he wants to hang out and I don’t. He wants a closer type friendship
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He won’t make a move on me?
I thought you just wanted to be friends. Did you just lie to me
I do want to be friends but since he said he liked me I wonder if he is lying and will make a move on me
Why don’t you ask him out yourself
I’m not interested in him that way and he doesn’t want to date me. My height is a big issue for him.
Then why are you wanting him to make a move?
I don’t want him to make a move I was wondering will he if we hang out
We are friends
You both already have friends
We don’t want to date each other so what is the problem?
You're not friends. You're keeping each other from finding what you really want. No girl will put up with him hangin out with you. No guy will put up with you hangin out with another guy. This is convenient; something to do. It fills the gap because you have nothing else going on. If you had a serious boyfriend, you would have no need for this guy in your life
Which is why we only Text so we are not around each other. He wants to hang out but I don’t. I actually have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend and we don’t have any problems.
Does your boyfriend think it's cool you text another guy? How great is your boyfriend if you still feel the need to text another guy?If it's simply a friend you want, text another girl.
He doesn’t mind because it isn’t anything sexual. We already set that boundary. You are acting like men and woman can’t be friends
They can't. You really think this other guy hasn't thought about fucking you? Come on...
Yea but he doesn’t want to date. Most guys would fuck their female friends if given the opportunity. Let’s not be delusional about that.
Exactly... so don't fool yourself into thinking ulterior motives equal friendship. You're not friends and neither are most people. Once the possibility of sex disappears the so called friendship dissolves.
Why you can’t have sex and still be friends?
You can; it's called friends with benefitsIs you boyfriend ok with you having a friends with benefits? How about his girlfriend? Would you be ok if your boyfriend was fucking his "friend"? i think you know exactly what's going on here and you're trying to rationalize this potential dumpster fire of a situation. I answered your initial question, but you do whatever you feel is right for you... and your boyfriend since you're committed to him; like you would have done all along, right? Good Luck
We both want to be friends