Do guys move on faster?

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Do you think guys move on faster than girls do when breaking up

Answer 1

Guru

From my experience, women move on faster. I've known of guys to go for lots of hook-ups and such when they break up with a girl they really love, but they have that longing there for that person, and they're wishing it was her - if they are even successful with this. I think women move on faster partly because we have more options. Nowadays men have to work at it more to get a date, generally, while we always have multiple guys at the back door. I also think it's because men are less likely to get emotionally invested; they prefer to "move around." Therefore when they actually get hit with a load of emotion for one particular girl it's highly exceptional and makes them a little different in several ways. You can usually tell a lot more easily when a man is really wanting a real relationship with a woman because of this.

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Answer 2

SjE78 | 1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

some do, but most dont... the ones that do though chances are never really felt anything for you to begin with... however that being said... if a guy did truly feel somethng and many of us do the only way those guys would be able to move on quickly is if they had been hurt really bad by their girlfriend's

the ones who do it easily without any feeling otherwise, and without any issues that cannot be easily worked through have already made their mind up and was sticking around either cos they had no where to go, no one else to turn to or it was out of habbit...
however the ones who want to make the relationship work always stick around unless there is no way to continue, though they for the most part won't move on straight away as need time to heal too

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ryancg | 311 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

Not in my experience. It seems like all my exes have new guys within days.

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Gosselinfan

1 y
I can’t get a guy even if I try
ryancg

1 y
My luck ain't much better, it seems like I always end up with the manipulative bad girls.

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Gosselinfan

I can’t get a guy even if I try

Answer 5

ryancg

My luck ain't much better, it seems like I always end up with the manipulative bad girls.

Answer 6

Anonymous

No. If they really loved someone
Yes. If they just pretended to love
Even if some girls don't believe that, most men have an emotional core but the armor around it is very thick once it has been hurt.

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AqibFarid

Xper 5

Yes, if they leave first
Nope, if he loved her in the essence he will take alit of time

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Gosselinfan

1 y
He left even though we could have made it work he just didn’t have the patience for me
AqibFarid

1 y
Only those get the ripped fruit who have patience. Those who don't have patience, they get nothing...

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Gosselinfan

He left even though we could have made it work he just didn’t have the patience for me

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AqibFarid

Only those get the ripped fruit who have patience. Those who don't have patience, they get nothing...

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GreenGold1992 | 3.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

No, everyone is different in this field, regardless of gender.

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An_Impulse | 121 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 5

nop. female have more support than us. we just dont have anyone to share, it is invisible..

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Gosselinfan

1 y
Really? Then why do guys go silent on the girl?
An_Impulse

1 y
which girl? i dont know who you talking about :) if you mean the ex, it is why the person called 'ex'. i mean why would you bother the girl you just broke up or got cheated, dumped by, etc..

look, if a guy goes and tell everyone about their feelings or insecurities.. it will only harm their position as 'strong' guy. no one would want this. also like i said... we dont go and hug the pillow in the middle of the day and cry for a week to get attention.. we just put it inside.. and when you go to sleep you stay awake for 2 hours thinking about the girl you just been with why it ended.. happy memories sad memories etc. i got dumped by my girlfriend in like 6 month ago, still to this day i never had a single nights sleep i go before i think about her, yet no one is talking or asking me about 'how do you feel? can we talk? if you wanna share anything, im here for you' kind of things. why would i go around and ask to share my feelings to people who obviously doesn't care about it.

sorry a bit long.. but i am really full of it as of right now :)
An_Impulse

1 y
also i feel like i broke the silence right there :) sorry it hit you
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An_Impulse

1 y
this is fine kind of feeling basicly.
Gosselinfan

1 y
I guess I mean when a guy breaks up with a girl he goes silent like my ex is still friends with me on fb but doesn’t talk
An_Impulse

1 y
yeah whats the point with talking to you in his perspective?
Gosselinfan

1 y
What do you mena
An_Impulse

1 y
why would he come to you and talk to you? whats the point? i mean if he wants to stay away from you, or doesn't want you. that must be the reason he left you in the first place. what is the point of talking to you?
Gosselinfan

1 y
Yeah makes sense he’s an idiot for giving up
An_Impulse

1 y
look lady.. i have tried to make you understand.. its not for us male population to go around and share 'feelings'.. sorry but its the fact..
Gosselinfan

1 y
Yeah I get it but I’m just wondering if he’s thinking of me that’s all
An_Impulse

1 y
you have to ask him about that. he might. he might not.. he could be just another asshole simply gone and forget all about you.. but i can only talk about myself.

look i'll go and admit this. i still keep her actual material photograph in my diary. you can't simply go and accuse every guy just because your jackass ex boyfriend. (sorry for the language.)
Gosselinfan

1 y
I think he was a manipulator according to my friends

Answer 12

Gosselinfan

Really? Then why do guys go silent on the girl?

Answer 13

An_Impulse

which girl? i dont know who you talking about :) if you mean the ex, it is why the person called 'ex'. i mean why would you bother the girl you just broke up or got cheated, dumped by, etc..

look, if a guy goes and tell everyone about their feelings or insecurities.. it will only harm their position as 'strong' guy. no one would want this. also like i said... we dont go and hug the pillow in the middle of the day and cry for a week to get attention.. we just put it inside.. and when you go to sleep you stay awake for 2 hours thinking about the girl you just been with why it ended.. happy memories sad memories etc. i got dumped by my girlfriend in like 6 month ago, still to this day i never had a single nights sleep i go before i think about her, yet no one is talking or asking me about 'how do you feel? can we talk? if you wanna share anything, im here for you' kind of things. why would i go around and ask to share my feelings to people who obviously doesn't care about it.

sorry a bit long.. but i am really full of it as of right now :)

Answer 14

An_Impulse

also i feel like i broke the silence right there :) sorry it hit you

Answer 15

An_Impulse

Do guys move on faster? this is fine kind of feeling basicly.

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Gosselinfan

I guess I mean when a guy breaks up with a girl he goes silent like my ex is still friends with me on fb but doesn’t talk

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An_Impulse

yeah whats the point with talking to you in his perspective?

Answer 18

Gosselinfan

What do you mena

Answer 19

An_Impulse

why would he come to you and talk to you? whats the point? i mean if he wants to stay away from you, or doesn't want you. that must be the reason he left you in the first place. what is the point of talking to you?

Answer 20

Gosselinfan

Yeah makes sense he’s an idiot for giving up

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An_Impulse

look lady.. i have tried to make you understand.. its not for us male population to go around and share 'feelings'.. sorry but its the fact..

Answer 22

Gosselinfan

Yeah I get it but I’m just wondering if he’s thinking of me that’s all

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An_Impulse

you have to ask him about that. he might. he might not.. he could be just another asshole simply gone and forget all about you.. but i can only talk about myself.

look i'll go and admit this. i still keep her actual material photograph in my diary. you can't simply go and accuse every guy just because your jackass ex boyfriend. (sorry for the language.)

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Gosselinfan

I think he was a manipulator according to my friends

Answer 25

Anonymous

Depends. My ex dumped me and I came to the realization she wasn't worth it. But it hasn't always been that way.

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infinitybreaker2018

Xper 7

I personally haven't been able to

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AmeerX | 1.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

I have seen cold hearted girls never boys

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loginfailed

Explorer

Definetly not me lol

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SomeGuyCalledTom | 859 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Not in my experience

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