If it's the first date I'm not doing any of that.
Nor am I. I was making a point.I actually appreciate it when a girl makes it clear she expects me to do and pay for everything on the first date because it tells me enough about her character to know she is not someone I will ever take seriously.
No I will never tell a man I expect him to pay for everything. However if he invites me I expect him to pay for it same when I invite him I'm the one who pays for it. But my question is not about who pays what.
I completely see what you're saying there; no one should feel entitled to shit just because someone has interest.
@Asker"However if he invites me I expect him to pay".Great, thank you for telling men so I can avoid you in the dating world. You are exactly who I was talking about. How nice it must be to say that knowing the onus is always on men to ask women out. How convenient for you. lolWhether or not you are bright enough to see it, your question was about exactly the same thing; the entitlement of modern women. @anonymau55 Yeah that's it a high level, but it goes deeper than that. Modern women like the Asker here think they are entitled to men pursuing them AND men paying for their shit, and they twist in in their minds to believe they should expect it despite all the bullshit over the last 4 decades about gender equality. Women like her want equity, but only when it benefits them. They give all women a bad rep.
Honey I'm talking about going on dates! I'm not talking about men paying for my stuff. Whatever I own I payed from my own money I never asked a men to buy me this or that. I was just talking about going on dates.
Yes, I'm talking about dates as well. Honey, I'm not surprised this is all going right over your head.
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