My girlfriend (for a year) and me were making love and I called her by my exes name (they're names sound similar) by mistake. She flips out saying I'm still thinking of her sexually (I do think of her but only as a friend and nothing else.) She started crying and I could say a thing she ran of the room.
Her ex-boyfriend did this to her but it was her best friend who he cheated with. I call her a few times with no answer and I even went her place (once). She her roommate answer it saying she didn't want see to me. I would never even think of cheating on her. The thought cross mind. What do I do?
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Omg that's terrible.
Give her space right now. Don't contact her for awhile. And make up a plan.
Not just random, flowers, and stuff.
I mean, start from zero. As if you were trying to get her to go out with you again.
Write a letter (explaining your side, and how sorry you are), write how you feel. She needs a lot of reassurance from you, so just let all your feelings for her flow, in the letter. Tell her you love her, and you'll do anything for her to talk to you. Don't tell her to call you or text you or anything. Just end the letter with something sweet. Or something that will bring her back to memories of you and her.
Then the next day, or a couple of days after, send her flowers. Leave it somewhere where you know she will get it. Like, at her place, or at her work, or somewhere. Have someone deliver it. She is still mad, so having someone else deliver it will be a sweet suprise for her.
(Well I can keep going but I'll stop here. Because I'm sure you already know waht to do).
The point here is to make her go back to the past. The good memories. When you and her were happy. When she felt SECURE. She misses you for sure. We just have to help her put her guard down, and help her see that you do love her.1