in a bar, through mutual friends, etc.? How did he approach you? Did you approach him?
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Through a friend of a friend. My [ex] friend was having this thing with a guy we both know, and he'd texted her mentioning that his friend wanted to meet me. He'd split up with his wife only a few days before that, so initially I believe all he was looking for was a rebound one night stand of sorts. I didn't know any of that beforehand, and thought it was unusual that he wanted to meet me, only because that kind of thing doesn't generally happen to me. But I figured, what the hell, why not? So I guess technically he 'approached me'.
We actually had our first meeting at a crack-house, lmao. We were introduced, talked for hours, ended up hitting it off, and he asked for my number later that night. No one night stand. =P We hung out in mixed company a few more times before he invited me over to his house to hang out one on one. I slept with him later that night just because it felt right. He held and cuddled me for the rest of the night, and we woke up exactly as we'd fallen asleep. Normally I toss and turn, get antsy being confined in someone's arms for so long, and take forever to get to sleep. But I've never been so comfortable with someone in my life, and fell asleep easier and quicker than I ever have with another person. We both came to the conclusion that we wanted to be together for real, exclusively, about a week later. The rebound one night stand idea flew out the window that first day we hung out together by ourselves, lol, and now we couldn't be more into each other.0