What if he told you he wants kids but, not for the same REASON you do, that he'd only want kids, because he'll need to
I still wouldn’t want to be with him bc I’d want us on the same page. If one wants kids and one feels like they have to have kids then it’s not the same. If that makes sense.
But he'd still be having kids
Also, what if he told you he doesn't want marriage, but, would do it anyway, to make you happy
I guess It would really just depend on the connection we have like if we get along really good and have a good relationship and can get through arguments and other bs then I’d consider it but it would feel a lot better knowing he had kids with me bc he wanted kids and he married me bc he loves me and what’s to be married to me not bc he feels like he HAS to. But I guess if he does it to make me happy that’s saying something...
marriage isn't necessary these daysand people are having too many kidsI just think you should rethink you're answerand get back to methink about it, and get back to me
Lol it sounds like you’re rich and handsome and don’t want kids or marriage 🤣 my answer won’t change lol but good luck to you I’m sure there’s someone out there who wants the same things
like i said, i think you're being hard headed hereand not thinking straight
I think you are being hard headed and want me to tell you what you wanna hear 🧐🧐
No, that would be you
You do realize that you asked for people opinions then I gave that to you then you’re tryna tell me to I’m hard headed and shouldn’t think like that lol
Because you seem pretty set in your waysThat's the point of calling you hard headed, you won't change your mind
But you aren’t hard headed for not accepting my opinion and moving on?
I merely asked the questionyou're the one who won't change their opinion, based on what 'I've given you
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Not being married, doesn't make you a whore.. you could have a domestic relationship, without being married
No I prefer to have a title
If he loves me than what's the problem in marriage
a "domestic relationship"IS, a title
I prefer marriage to be the title and what's the harm in marriage
exactly my pointyou're being hard headed
won't change your opinion
so, why date
Cause I want love too and dont want to be alone forever?
would you at least to a domestic relationshipand don't you think you're being a little selfish by not having kids
Yes I wouldNo Im not, there's enough kids in the world already. I won't give birth cause other people want me to
Coz its not something i would make it conditional with
Because I want marriage and kids and that’s a non-negotiable. If he doesn’t want the same things in life then that’s a dealbreaker obviously.
I've heard otherwise