I know you can’t force someone to feel a certain way about you. I’m talking about the reaction after revealing feelings. She was distant acting awkward and cold to me
well she would be if she clearly doesn't feel the same. i mean what did you expect her to do with that information really given that she probably thought you were just friends. ofcourse she is going to back off. sorry if that seems harsh but along with learning how to take rejection you may also need to learn to keep a better control on your feelings and not let them run until you are sure its reciprocal.
This makes no sense but okay
well hopefully one day it will make perfect sense... its clear you have some way to go yet but like i indicated from the start, you need to ''learn'' from this
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I know but she was cold to me.
There's nothing you can do, have to let it go.
Instinct, do they like you? Two outcomes (maybe), they liked you already maybe and if they didn't they don't really care and your life doesn't really matter much for them so you distance.
So my life doesn’t matter if she doesn’t feel the same?
I don't know what I'm saying dude, don't mind me. If what you're saying is they don't like you in return and you can't figure out what to do now... You either decide if they're worth 'chasing' and going after or you can just leave them alone I guess.
Maybe @anon1903 has something to say about that/this...
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