he's prolly a virgo
Seems like communication is the reason this “red pill” shit is happening during the social media age. Correlation-not-causation, I know. But seems likely...
There are other reasons why that happens, communication not being the most influential of them.
Do you have female friends?
Yes but they're taken and some of them can't stay with a man.
It’s important to learn how to talk to women. Get as many female friends as possible. Also, they love setting guys up with their friends. It’s how I found my wife.
Yeah but things are very different where I'm at. the girls here are very shallow. They don't like people who likes both Star wars and Star trek or you drink both Coca-Cola and Pepsi. You can only pick one side. Also they DONT want to be friends with you when you don't have a driver's license or any vehicles. Also how you found your wife you can't do that here. Some guys ain't so lucky.
It's all about the looks 🏎️ and money 💰
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Your a pretty person
@Rocco70 Thank you sir ✨
Ew, girl I would have hung up ugh.
That's so disrespectful of him. Is he deaf? You said that you did house cleaning and stuff. But still that jerk made fun of you and labelled you sexually?
Sounds boring :)
Boring but at least I won't be barefoot and pregnant.
I thought Christians want barefoot and pregnant. “Wives submit to your husbands...”
Not boring to stand for what you believe in. That's courageous
What if he’s shy? Would you give him some leeway?
Summed up my thoughts into one sentence! I'll never understand guys who get all mad when you tell them that's the reason why u don't want to date them (and it took that much to actually have a decent conversation)
Something should be as simple as possible but no simpler. and this seems like something that crossed the line.
virgo men tend to be high earners though
Do guys have trouble talking to you? Is shyness a reason you think?
Some do, some don’t. The ones who don’t tend to come up later and admit to being shy, which is okay. There are plenty who do approach me, more than ones who don’t (that I know of).Why do you ask?
That’s as far as approaching. As for actually talking to me, no I haven’t had a problem.
I’ve been giving advice to guys who aren’t getting dates.
appearance as in disability or something?
can that be considered ableist though?
@NatalieKeller95 I don't think so?
"not established" as in he is poor? lol by the way who do you date, not many are established at around age 20.. Some struggle even at 30+ to get something going nowadays. by the way established could mean that someone has achieved the money and posessions they want in their life. Basically they are at the finish line and enjoying life, can have children etc.. Girls always want the "complete package" from the get go it seems.I always see this from girls "no goals", what kind of goals does a guy need for girls to be interested in them? Wanting to have children can be a goal, no? Maybe getting better at a hobby or advancing in his career. Or you know having a loving partner, that is kind and not measuring a guys worth by his career and goals BS.I feel like this is what it really means, but correct me if i'm wrong: He wants to be a CEO and is already wealthy "Oh nice, let's date"or He does X job and is not wealthy "Fuck off, im not dating you"
looking for an established 21 yr old seems overzealous.
@ElvenMr No I'd date a poor guy as long as he was putting effort to be better and was a good genuine man that is believed in god. And who says I meant a 21 year old? I date older guys. I meant I don't want a scrub. A guy that lives with his mom , has no car , no job and disrespects women. Like he's okay with not having anything for himself and talks about his friends success. That type of guy can stay the hell out of my life. You're not putting in any effort for yourself so why should I believe you'll put in effort for me? no thank you I'm not perfect I'm a work in progress as well but I'm string to be a better me. I want a man that will advance himself not just his career and hobbies but his mind and spirit as well . I've dealt with shitty guys that were happy being scrubs and I wanted to fix them but no more. I deserve better. Fix yourself or stay away from me period
all i heard were just straight facts
@OddBeMe who said I was looking? Who said i wanted someone my age? But I know established men who have things in their name my age and older and are very sweet guys so I'm allowing myself to have that standard cuz I be damned if I give my time to another dude who doesn't have shit going for themselves and have the audacity to be a disrespectful little bitch. If u a good guy then we can be friends until u do better but I dont feel should be dating and u dont have anything to offer me
@roxbby 😂 I'm just speaking from previous experience. I'm not about to lower my standards anymore cuz that shit dont end well. So my standards are set. if they dont meet them then they dont have a chance period.
lol you're 21 and you want somebody "established" either you're into 50yo guys or you're full of it! hahaha
@DonCachondo no I dont like guys my age because of ignorant clowns like u. 2nd I have a right to my standards and u can't convince me otherwise 3rd who'd want someone with nothing going for themselves and no goals tf? That's sad u haven't seen any young successful people but they do exist. Just because you accept low standards for yourself doesn't mean everyone else has to 🤡
@DonCachondo I'm pretty sure you're a scrub based on your immature mindset 🤦🏾♀️
well you know me, scrub a dub dub!
@DonCachondo yeah unfortunately I do know boys like u which is why I have standards
One of the stupidest answer of the past yea.Goes to show that people's intellect is going down the drain faster than Coved can harm you. A real sign of a failing society...
Not every black guy is hung and if your dating a black guy purely for his dick then that fetishize and it's kinda gross
GREAT SCOTT!I must be black o. o
What attributes in a guy do you respond to?
I guess there's a pattern, as the guy I like are smart and nerdy. Really, after talking to someone for ages I get this warm feeling
Noone is flawless tho. Girls insanely inflate their looks one way or another. Then they turn down a completely fine dude, who she even likes maybe, just because he is not top of the line? She is not top of the line, but she thinks she is. Come on..
@ElvenMr not every girl thinks that. In my case I loved the physically ugly guy because he seemed to be genuine and loyal. But then I found out that he loves hot girls but always lied to me. So I also thought why am I lowering my standards if he chose me because of my looks? He turned out to be a liar and a cheater later.
I see. I know for girls it's different, cause girls get approached, while guys usually have to do the approaching. I imagine as a girl it must be hard to decide what the guy wants from you as he comes up to you, or when he slides into the DMs. But now you know it's hard for a guy who is really interested in you to say something to you, and not make you think that he is a creep or just wants you for sex.I wouldn't date an ugly girl, but that doesn't mean she has to be the best looking girl ever. She just has to look good to me whatever it may mean. Some girls stand out for me on tinder/IRL even tho they are not the usual sexy-hot type at all. But there is something about their looks and vibe, that still grabs me. It's kind of rare tho, and on tinder it hurts bad, cause we never match hah. (i have the shitties profile tho, so no wonder)
was he autism?
*Insert good thinking meme* "Can't be ugly if I reject him for wanting somebody pretty"
what about aggressive hardcore guys?
@NatalieKeller95 I assume it means sexually? I like dominant gentle. A silent aura of dominance that speaks for itself 🤔 describing it is hard
But they always ask and consider how I feel about it
I didn't really mean sexually though
@NatalieKeller95 Aggressive towards me and others? No thanks. It disrupts my peace and leads to fights and arguments. Time wastage. I have some families that and i avoid them.
well maybe towards others but not you
@NatalieKeller95 I admit I would feel special but someone like that is not genuine, and usually has an ulterior motive... I mean if it was someone I grew up with and they just trust me and only live me yeah... but in a new relationship i wouldn't trust that person.I would be embarrassed and uncomfortable watching them treat others like that.
most people we grow up with end up splitting one way or another, because they go different paths
@NatalieKeller95 I guess it is true. The 1% have something special.
Exactly. If they won't accept the average girl then why should we Lower our standards? We also deserve better.
You are right love is built on friendship and trust.
I know what you mean.I was just telling a buddy the other day, a girl can be really pretty and fit and everything, but if we don't have chemistry together, then it won't work.
Well she has to produce a child with you. She's not looking for a soul mate that looks like shrek.. lol
It's mostly about looks for them, true.
@Rory_Pants shrek has the best genes in the history of anime though
I’ve seen plenty of shorter guys with chicks who are taller. Not much taller, but there’s a few inches of margin.
Being a youngin’, what peaks your interest in a guy?
I reject guys because I'm not interested in finding anyone
yeah fuck those assholes! They should've voted for BERNIE
I’m sure the basics are the same. What makes you say yes to a date?