Did you figure out you don’t actually like it or did you figure out ways to resolve the feelings of shame?
Well we broke up. For other reasons. I feel I miss the sex. I think if he was sober I'd feel more comfortable. Sometimes he went to far and that's what scared me and be afraid to allow him to do it again.
Aw I’m sorry to hear that he went too far! Trust is a huge component in a sexual relationship like that if it’s going to work out. I hope you can find someone who can meet those needs while still fostering a sense of trust.
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