So I like this girl but she is 4 years older than me is that a big age gap and is it bad she is older. I know we have some things in common. But all of my friends have only dated younger girls I only one person who dated an older woman and it worked out. I’m not much of a leader and I’m pretty responsible but sometimes need reminders to do things. Do this make an older woman a better partner for me? Would sex be better with someone older? I know a few of her friends and they are younger than me.