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Is it wrong to put up a facade for my girlfriend?

My girlfriend and i have been dating for 2 years now and we are deeply in love with each other. When we first met she didn't have any piercings but after 1 year of dating she got a double nose piercing and an eyebrow piercing. I personally hate piercings but hate being a shallow asshole even more so I pushed my feelings to the wayside. Now she wants to get cheek and septum piercings which for me are the least attractive modifications anyone could do before putting gauges in. I really don't want to make a big deal out of this and I dont want to be preventing her from living her life the best way she can but Im also fearful of losing physical attraction to her. I already feeling like a giant piece of shit for not being able to just let her do what she wants and I just want her to be happy but my stupid fucking prefferences are making me miserable. If anyone has any advice it would be greatly appreciated.
Is it wrong to put up a facade for my girlfriend?
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