My girlfriend and i have been dating for 2 years now and we are deeply in love with each other. When we first met she didn't have any piercings but after 1 year of dating she got a double nose piercing and an eyebrow piercing. I personally hate piercings but hate being a shallow asshole even more so I pushed my feelings to the wayside. Now she wants to get cheek and septum piercings which for me are the least attractive modifications anyone could do before putting gauges in. I really don't want to make a big deal out of this and I dont want to be preventing her from living her life the best way she can but Im also fearful of losing physical attraction to her. I already feeling like a giant piece of shit for not being able to just let her do what she wants and I just want her to be happy but my stupid fucking prefferences are making me miserable. If anyone has any advice it would be greatly appreciated.