Thank you! This was really great.It's hard when people don't want you the same way you want them. And the definitely sweet talk you but i think its better to move on too.
You're welcome! It really is hard when you like someone but the feeling isn't mutual; I've had that happen to me more times than I care to admit :|But I have learned not to stick around or hope they change their mind. If someone tells you they do not want you, do not stick around: leave and find someone that does want you.
I hate it! We dated for 7 months and saw each other 4 times a week! In my head it wasn't crazy what i was asking. And I have to see him again because we go to the same gym, so i want to be really over him...
😩 Girl, fix another time to go to the gym. You have to slowly go away! I now it is really hard, I have been in your situation... You have to try to find another solution and trust me you will find a guy who will treat you as you deserve
I told him it wasn't working out for me, we haven't talk to in a week. I don't know if he'll try to reach out or not, I was thinking of texting him and decided against. But he is one of the gym trainers at my gym, I can switch my schedule but I will run into him eventually and that is the problem... I don't know how he will react or how I will react. With covid the gyms are momentarily closed where I live, but will probably open up soon
He will only reach out when he is bored! If you try to ignore him and he tries to reach out again don't talk to him immediately! You have to show him that you are not easy to get! And also you don't have to think about how he will react. You can do whatever you want and you are not committed to him. So don't care about what he will think and react. The only thing you have to care about is what is best for you and what makes you happy. I hope you will think about it
I won't talk to him and I'll just deal with how I react to seeing him when the time comes. Thank you for the great advice!
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