What if you know she’s nm of caller
Then we have a problem. Texting ties up my hands when I could be multi-tasking. If it's not important enough to talk about, then it can wait until we see each other in person or until I have time to respond to the text. Which means that text may sit there for 30 minutes at a time.
He says he doesn’t enjoy texting and when he’s on the phone with me I have his full attention so no multitasking lol
Multi-tasking is my own reason for not liking to text, but I understand his argument as well. The time between texts affords a lot of time to get distracted or become disinterested in whatever is being talked about. Texting is just best used, in my opinion, for messages that can wait. Phone calls are better suited for an actual conversation.
So would you say I should call him more especially because I’m getting myself butt hurt that he’s not texting me
That's up to you. You said you don't like talking on the phone, right? If you both have different preferences for communication, try to search for a compromise. Talk about it with him. See what you can come up with.
I have he’s really a facetimer which I despise so I guess we’ve settled for phone calls?
I’m not projecting I’m wondering.. I don't know if I should just call him.
Yes, you should call him. No guy is gonna text you like your girlfriends - I guarantee it. Worse, you get no emotion and zero body language with texting. So you miss out on at least half of what's being communicated. Which leads to confusion and misunderstanding. You simply cannot forge a romantic relationship with someone by texting. Use it to arrange your next meet up IRL.
You’re right! It’s just our schedules are different so when he has time I don’t really to talk
Arrange a date - spend some time together getting to know each other. That's what people do when they have a love interest in someone. The texting thing is just a crutch, a filler, and people put way too much weight in it.
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