So you wait that she text you first? What if she doesn’t hit u up?
They do, because eye contact.
I mean through online...
If its online... just tell you love each other for life, doesn't matter, one he/she gets someone in RL they become interested in, it's hard to tell how an online relationship will survive, so better be as much lovey dovey as possible
We live in the same city lol. We can always meet.
Ok, I'm not the kind to text first, but I try to balance it, sometimes I do sometimes i get bored of always starting it, it needs to be fair, since I believe our time ain't cheap. Same city then it's not online, you can try text first and wait till he does it next time, maybe if he's a little bit smart he will notice it right away, if not, then 1. He's busy 2. He's chatting with someone else 3. He's not interested. A quiet woman is a scary woman, same applies to men, if he doesn't initiate within a day, do it and next time wait 2 days, maybe a week
If I don't meet the girl in real life, to check eye contact, I usually dont take it seriously, if you haven't meet yet, do it under heavy care since the situation is now like this or through online meeting
Is it possible that guy won’t initiate texts at all if he’s not sure that the girl likes him/has given enough signs?
Yes, it's a fact that the above is entirely possible, and even with enough signs he may not text first. Maybe he's commited to someone already and is faithful. If he got ice at home why would he want another ice?
He’s single. What about in that case?
There was this girl who would give me signals, I was single at that time, but I was commited to one person, so I didn't want to be a jerk and just didn't let it progress too much, now she looks at me with a weird face. I wasn't together with the girl I was commited with, it's just I loved her and needed time to stop it, and it wasn't another girl that would help me with that. Since its very rare for cases like this, your guy maybe isn't really interested.
So u rather not text at all if the girl doesn’t initiate texts?
I would rather not seem desperate cause I hear that's fairly unattractive. If she doesn't initiate and never text I assume she doesn't like me and move on.
What if she has initiated texts twice and u have three times. Would you wait for her to text first?
If we texted a few times then yes but if it was the first time getting her number and make sure she has my number then I would hope she likes me enough to message me, but I probably wait a day cause I hear your supposed to wait a day or two before messaging to avoid seeming desperate. So in a day or I would text her first.
Me and my crush don’t have each others Numbers. We’ve talked only by commenting on each other’s Instagram stories. We’ve talked only couple times so far and he doesn’t initiate more conversations with me. Do u think that the reason for him not to reach out to me is that he doesn’t know if I’m interested in him?
Most likely for me I'm just extremely paranoid and haven't ever had a girlfriend nor have I had sex before so I'm paranoid how I act around ladies or how I talk to them for fear I will scare them off with my desperation.
by the way He hangs around more in my part of the city and even my neighborhood and posts about that in his story update. Why?Do you think it’s pure coincidence?
Maybe he hopes to run into you. I've done stuff like that. Why not tell him you like him.
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So they wait for the girl to initiate texts?
Some guys do
What should the girl do in that situation? Initiate more till he gets the hint? So far the girl has initiated texts twice.
All you can do is try
What could be the reason for that?