i want this boy to text me more often, but I don't wanna just be like hey text me more. how can I just get him to do it on his own?
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I wondered about that for the longest time until I finally found a solution. It wasn't even intended.. It just happened..
And now the guy is my boyfriend and we're totally in love btw! haha
So the solution is basically to text him a lot so that he's used to the two of you texting. Then stop all of a sudden. He'll miss it and start texting you himself.
Kind of reverse psychology!
It really works!
I even still do it. Even now that we're in a relationship. Whenever I feel like I'm always initiating our conversations or texting I just randomly suddenly stop...
They always come back saying something like "HEY! Where've you been? I missed you!"
I hope this helped :)3