So whenever I am interested in a guy and we start talking and I start to like him even more... he ends up fading off or ghosting or plain telling me he doesn’t want or believe in a relationship. Then a month or a couple months later THEY ARE POSTING PICS OF THE GIRL THEY ARE SEEING. Right after me! And I am always SO HURT 😭 thinking why couldn’t have been me? What was wrong with me? AND THEY PIC A GIRL THAT IS LIKE ME. Looks like me or is into the same things as me or has the same job as me. This happens as a pattern, every few years.