that was very thoughtful and insightful.. thank you 😊🌹
You're welcome. If you're thinking about getting into a relationship with someone that was in a long relationship before, I don't think that should necessarily scare you. It could be a good thing. A lot of course depends on the individual situation.How much do you know about that relationship and what caused it to end and how long ago it ended? (Even if it ended recently, that's not necessarily bad either. Someone that stayed until it was clearly hopeless might have already completed all or most of the emotional processing and could be ready to move on pretty quickly. I was.)
Thank you.. your words were wise, encouraging, and helpful. Thank you 🌹
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I could add to your options that there are those that struggle leaving what feels secure even if there maybe isn't any love anymore. Some could have been stuck in an abusive relationship and didn't know how to get out of it.
I get what you're trying to convey.. I wasn't really trying to capture all the possible reasons why would someone stay for so long. I just wanted to trigger people to debate, exchange thoughts and talk. I can tell that for you, as an example, judgement won't be made at all without having context and getting to know her more. Which is a beautiful stand and a positive logical one as well 🌹
Well I'm not perfect and I too can be judgmental but I hope to not judge people for things that aren't really important and especially not to judge without putting myself in their position.May I ask if you wonder this because you yourself have had a long relationship that is no longer?
I think I enjoy talking to people and get my head off of things. I ask about random thoughts and ideas that cross my mind. Just to start a conversation really. As I honestly don't care much about people's opinion of me. Especially strangers. I know better than that
I can understand that, was simply wondering. One can be curious of others opinions even if they don't matter.I'm not sure you answered my question but that's alright.You are definitely right that one shouldn't take strangers opinions to heart.
I might got inspired by my own experience 😊
I kinda thought so when I really thought about it.Either way from what I've seen you seem intelligent and having your feet in the right place. I obviously don't know you but that's my impression. Just wanted to throw that out there.
Thank you I appreciate that 🌹
One random question, how long is your hair? Haha. It seems on your photo like it goes forever 😁
haha I'm not Rapunzel but it reaches my thigh if I let it. Why? 😅
That's pretty damn long, is it not annoying? I've had long hair but nothing like you and it annoyed me quite often haha
lol ikr it's a love hate relationship