That sucks big time, I'm sorry about that
Well I learned a lesson. My gut was telling me the truth that she saw me as nothing but a temporary distraction/excitement. My gut also told me that she was selfishly confident that I was “okay” with the friend zone because I’m “kind”’. The vain lie I told myself was “maybe she just sees me as a fuck boy and if I explain I’m not she will change her mind”. We sat down and talked to face to face. I got the answer I didn’t want and worse. This is why I cut women off now if my gut tells me something. It’s never been wrong.
I just hope your gut doesn't mislead you when you find the one
Funny this girl said “I’m following my heart” when she decided to cut it off. I would respected that but her asking me “to be friends” (again) made me want to punch her in the face. I would never do that of course. But that is unbridled female conceit. If she respected me she wouldn’t of said that. But I’ll quit wallowing in my own self pity. I can magically go back and say what I want it say. But use my HEAD (like my gut) and not my heart when dealing with the next one.
I agree with everything but the dumb. It's not dumb, it's sad.
It's not dumb. It's retarded.
Thanks for the MHO!
This is FALSE
Just guys hoping women dont actually like sex bc it’s less work and competition
"Just guys hoping women dont actually like sex bc it’s less work and competition"LOLOLOL! Got a big laugh out of this. Very smart comment.
@VIVANTPlease walk me through your comment, because why on earth would any guy want a girl to NOT like sex?
What she said is not accurate, but it's a very cleverly crafted retort with a stinging feminist comeback to what she apparently perceives as a misogynistic comment.
I meant to come back and re explain. I worded my responses quickly and badly. I wasn’t trying to be adversarial it gene out wrong lolI’ll explain where I was going with it later. 👋😊😊😊
Darn don't disappoint me! I think I understood it very clearly and was duly impressed! Don't burst my bubble with an explanation that weakens your status!
This is a great answer. A lot of people try to say that there exist no differences on this topic between men and women, but my experiences and the experiences of my friends say otherwise. I had a good friend try to copy my behaviour thinking that it was empowering, and she ended up depressed for 4 months. I told her not to and she still did it.
@Derekk Exactly, so it really confuses me on why a lot of men are confused about why women are picky about men. We can't just let any guy come in and use our bodies, time, energy, youth, and fertility up if it turns out they aren't very serious about us to begin with. Women definitely need to be more careful and vet any man who comes their way and not let just any one in our hearts.
Yup. And honestly, the ignorance about why women are picky is probably just because of frustration. A guy is biologically wired to get it on constantly so it's really tough when you're looking for a release and it's locked behind a long process. A lot of guys think it's ok to "blame" women for not going against their nature and giving into it. But just ignore them :)
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You’re so accurate
Yea but if a guy sees a full blown relationship as responsibility he would rather avoid he won’t commit
Not true ask a socialpath they care only about themselfes and dont have it in them to experiemce true feeling of another from having repeated sex
@KaylaD24 Socios are a rare outlier, not the norm.
@Juxtapose - But bimbos argue exceptions rather than the rule or the norm. LOLOr she only dates sociopaths but can't spell it.
It always makes me wonder why people bother bringing up outliers. Sociopaths do not represent men, duh.
“I put it on him make him wanna marry me”. - curious what you mean by this and why you did it?
@GingerGuy It’s the lyrics to a song that have now become a viral meme. It means that I had sex with him and then he fell in love with me because the sex was phenomenal.
Oh ok lol
I also think it happens to women because many go into it liking him to begin with, hoping that casual sex will make him like her back. Take this out of the equation and I'd say its more equal.
Sex does seem to complicate things. I've wanted someone who I'm super glad I didn't end up with, probably just because we were having sex (an ex boyf).