What if he just didn’t find you attractive at the time?
If he respected me than I would consider it but if he thought I was disgusting or ugly or had hostile feelings to me I would not
What do you mean by hostile feelings?
I used to like a guy and he didn’t like me but I forgave him until I found out he was going behind my back and talking about how I was stupid and lazy cause I dropped out of school my first attempt due to health problems and ptsd and he was mocking me for that - later he wanted to date me and I refused - I later returned and got my BA
So feelings just go quickly if not acted on?
No but you said years later...
Even if you stayed good friends with him during those years?
I couldn't do that.
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