Believe it or not, there are rare cases of weirdos who do find grandpas and grandmas sexy
yeah well exceptions always exist xD nobody assumes that this is normal.
Same how some men are attracted to fat / obese women. some people are sexually attracted to feet. Others are sexually attracted to children. Then there are those who are attracted to old men
yeah so what? everything does exist xD that doesn't mean that generally speaking: people assume girls like grandpas.
Many old grandpas on here like to over exaggerate how so many young women like old guys. I guess it makes them feel good
well you never know what their experience is. maybe they come across those girls a lot.
Nahh none of the female classmates I know of are dating any guy over 32. Most of the women around my age date other guys in their 20s.
If an old guy dates some girl 20 years younger, 95% of the time it is a mainly physically relationship rather than emotional
i can tell you from my experience, that men are normally not approached. i'm 34 now and the last girl that actually approached me was 17... she was really trying too... it was kind of ridiculous. i mean i'm personally not attracted to girls that young but lots of guys apparently are.
girls around my age don't approach me at all.
If a 34 yr old have relationship with 17 yr old, it’s not likely they would materialize into anything real or valuable. You will find your relationship is mainly about sex or physical aspect. Because they simply operate on different wave lengths.
But there are girls who find father figures sexy. I guess those are the ones who go for much older men
yeah. i was never arguing that it's gonna be anything serious for me either way. it's ridicuolous. she was probably just horny.i wouldn't say it's "operating on different wave-lengths" i'd more say that you will have big trouble to relate and understand each other it that huge gap in life experience.
when I was younger , I date guys who were too old for me cus I didn’t know what I was doing. I found that the best conversations that I ever had were folks who were around the same age as me , maybe 2- 7 years older. If he’s any older , the convo just wouldn’t be as fun. There usually would be too many differences between us: perspective in life , sense of humor , maturity, experience.
As I’ve gotten older , I had a little more in common with old folks but still I prefer to Date guys 2-7/8 years older. Because large age gaps tend to result in divorce way more than marriages with small age gaps. Marital satisfaction also tends to decline in marriages with large age gaps
the difference in experience that creates the problem gets exponentially smaller with age though. so for example the difference between 10 and 12 is the comparable to the difference between 20 and 40. and it gets more drastic the older you get. so 40 and 60 is actually not that bad from that point of view. however then, the huge difference in live expectancy becomes the issue.
What you’re saying is definitely true but let’s be honest , if you’re 38 and your husband is 51. There obviously would start to be life stage incompatibility issues. This is why significant age gaps can lead to problems down the road. Statistics have shown that marriages with large age gaps tend to be less resilient and more prone to marriage dissatisfaction or divorce. www.google.com/.../the-bigger-the-age-gap-the-shorter-the-marriage-2014-11-11
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That’s still too old. I wouldn’t date them unless no other guy I want , wants me
If he's a lawyer or rich business guy. You'd date him
@Apope16 I only date them, not marry them.
@Apope16 I would date a rich 40 yr old. I prob wouldn’t marry him. I only marry him if no other handsome young man wants me. Even if I do marry him, I’m guaranteed to cheat
Wow. That's fucked up. What if he's a great guy?
Why would I want to marry some guy I’m not physically attracted to? The marriage is doomed to have issues and most likely fail anyways when I’m 38 and he’s 51.
I’m so young and there are so many good looking young men I can pick. I get along better with guys who are around my age too. I have absolutely no reason to go for an old guy who I’m not physically attracted to.
Hs girls tend to date guys in their late teens or early 20s.
Yes, that is exactly what I mean.
I’m 24 , I only date 27-32. Most of my 20 something yr old friends date guys under 30. I’m one of the few who will date a 32 yr old guy. Might take a chance on 33. But I prefer 32
Why wouldn't you date someone the same age as you? You might as well say 24-32. Imagine having the greatest match and then your deal breaker is them being 26🤦
Dude if I have a great Match who is 26, I will take it and marry him. I don’t give up good matches if he is 26 but I will he more hesitant if he is 36. Because large age gap might cause problems in the future of our marriage. It’s been proven that marital satisfaction declines in marriages with large age gaps. Age gap of 20 years is twice as likely to divorce than age gap or 3 years
No we don’t.
90 percent of us don’t
Well you would know better than me whether or not it's actually happening, I guess. But people certainly hear about it happening often enough that it's become a stereotype thing.
Because I have a lot of friends and former classmates in their 20s and not one of them are dating a guy over 34
How old guys keep their hopes up by over exaggerating the 10 percent.
We don’t like old guys.
Right, that’s what you said
Nahh most of us don’t. Old guys just like to over exaggerate the few ones who do
Never know which ones do if you don't try.
That’s how desperate you are for young women.
I'll let you know when I get old.
I know from experience that the older the guy is, the increasingly desperate he is for a female as young as possible. But she is usually not attracted to him. Might be a biological reason for it. He must go for Mates as young as possible to make up for his diminished sperm quality, in order to produce healthy offspring
So by this theory an 80 year old is after an 8 year old?
Yes. 80 yr olds tend to be even stare at less attractive younger women that you wouldn’t stare at. When a man reaches his mid 30s that’s when he starts having an increased attraction to teen girls.
I like older men, not old men
Play on words, but its only a matter of perspective.
Well I’m telling u 90% of us like older men, not old men. This is frequently difficult for old men to accept that they are less desirable past their prime
whats the cut off?
in General , men exit their prime by 35. It’s very hard to find a guy who still looks great at 35. If you can manage to look younger than your age , then you can date up to 40 and some young women wouldn’t mind. But from my experience, dating tends to come to a slow halt by 35. By 40, you have more chance of being single than getting married. If you’re still single at 45, it’s entirely game over.
If I get to 35, I would be more open to a younger guy. If I hit 40, I definitely would prefer a younger than older man
thats the point. you're just in that awkward stage right now
Nahh cus guys get less attractive as they develop white hairs , sagging skin, baldness.
Yikes, IYO, IYO