Fair enough. However, to your point about shacking up before marriage, this is the smarter way to go. Divorces are expensive, makes sense to me to figure this stuff out now rather than later.
No, it is not smart. Marriage is about discovery, learning, growth, maturity and being loyal to who you choose. If you are doing the right things in your life, picked a suitable partner, then you do what you have to do with your vows to each other. Divorce is supposed to be expensive to get you to learn to love each other. Not to fight, not to hurt, not to harm, not to be selfish, but to DIE to SELF. It won't work. That is a false belief that you are thinking. Once you married you're married. And playing house won't change anything.
That is what marriage is for and I can tell you that by those who are married and those who were married. You figure that out when you married. Otherwise, your wasting time and you're less likely to want to marry. Already your questioning what your girlfriend is doing. Get used to it. It's not about what you like. Either you love her or you don't. There is going to be PLENTY of things your going to hate about her as things she will about YOU. But do you LOVE each other, or are you just IN-LOVE. Since you want to be in that position, this is going to test you on whether you really do love each other or is it a joke.
Well said 👍🏾
I dare you to say that after experiencing an italien summer ahahah
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