Well not all girls are honest like you.Basically what I am getting from your explanation is that you wouldn't pursue the crush when you dont know if he likes you back or not? And if he likes you back, you assume he would come to you and let you know?
No. It’s not about him liking me back or not. And I’m not gonna make assumptions.
Why would you want him to come to you then?
Because me going to him would be rude and unethical- both to him and the guy I just dumped. He would have every reason to infer that I’m not a loyal partner given that I just dumped a guy for him. I would think the same thing if it was the other way around. I would need to figure out where MY problem lies before I try to push it on somebody else all over again.
I see. So you would let your crush pursue you and see how it goes? Flirting with each other?
Who would you choose?
Not a matter of who am I going to choose. It's about dealing with my problems. If I'm developing feelings for someone else, that means there is something wrong with my current relationship. I either fix whatever that problem is, or just break up and be single.
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