Of course you can just take any passing stranger. But why would you? Are you encouraging her to not have any standards. That's disrespectful.
@SnowyOwl What people consider "standards" are often way too good for them and highly unrealistic. Many many women have the "standard" that they won't date a man less than six feet tall. So no, unless you want to be a b*tch who dies alone, personality should be 90% or more of what matters in a partner. Also, most men in general don't get the ability to just get "any passing stranger" or else incels wouldn't be a thing. Damn your comment is f*cking annoying!
" men in general don't get the ability to just get "any passing stranger" " Good. Hook ups shouldn't be a thing anyways. And they wouldn't be such a big thing if women didn't devalue themselves as much as they have through history. Do you wanna be with someone who's ok in the head, or with someone who think is no good, and should throw herself at anyone even if she wouldn't be happy, just to be with someone. Would MUCH rather be alone. Keep victimizing males with the idea of "incels" and calling girl b*****s. Your mindset is your limitation, and its SO off
@SnowyOwl I didn't call girls/women "b*tches." I am referring to the ones who ARE one. What my point is, is that as a female, you likely will never have to experience being (too) lonely or constantly being seen as unworthy/inferior by numerous people, let alone made to feel like you don't matter because of them. I'm over it now and realized people suck for the most part, but in my early 20s, I legit had serious depression because all I wanted was someone to love me, and CONSTANTLY got told by women - either directly or implied - that I was an inferior male due to my lack of height, skin tone, looks, race, etc. So you, as a young female, just trying to imply that people should just hold out for their 10/10 perfect partner (while often not offering much of anything in return, as is the case with some men, but MANY women), sounds like something coming from someone who never had to feel unwanted or undesired by virtually EVERYONE. It's so tone deaf. What's worse is, how you only got mad at the female part and completely ignored the male part. That, combined with your dismissiveness towards lonely people (95% of the time, less-than-perfect-looking men), also gives off feminist undertones, as well.Basically, not everyone is you and has the option to get laid or feel desired by a stranger whenever they want, which is why your female-only-focused response of "dats disrespectful to women" is so damn obnoxious. Like, who gives a f*ck if that's disrespectful TO YOU. Are you used to not having someone kiss your ass for once?
Your sentences are limiting belief after limiting belief. I'm sorry that you have been this conditioned by your experiences. You are your own responsibility though. "I am referring to the ones who ARE one" = limiting belief. "as a female, you likely will never have to experience being (too) lonely or constantly being seen as unworthy/inferior by numerous people, let alone made to feel like you don't matter because of them" = limiting belief. " imply that people should just hold out for their 10/10 perfect partner" = limiting belief, not what I said, PEOPLE ARE NOT NUMBERS. "sounds like something coming from someone who never had to feel unwanted or undesired by virtually EVERYONE" = limiting belief, you dont know me, at all.. and you are just being mean out of frustration. "dismissiveness towards lonely people (95% of the time, less-than-perfect-looking men), also gives off feminist undertones" = limiting belief, again you are just judging me and making up things, and of course im a feminist, but it sounds like you dont know what that means, because you should be one too. "not everyone is you and has the option to get laid or feel desired by a stranger whenever they want" = limiting belief, WHY U ASSUMING AGAIN, who do you think I am, you think girls dont struggle, you ARE SO CLOSE-MINDED if you do. "who gives a f*ck if that's disrespectful TO YOU" = limiting belief, think like that and expect the return. Let me tell why YOU WILL NEVER be my type: you are waaaaaay too CONDITIONED by your LIMITING BELIEFS. And it has nothing to do with "height, skin tone, looks, race, etc". I dont need to argue with u anymore. Go on and reflect on your own if u ever wanna get somewhere. Whats life for anyways if not doing your best...
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Agreed. It helps you improve social skills. Just beware of some people who will take advantages, hit you up but not looking for something serious.
@el_Te_de_la_Rosa Very true.
Take your time, and don’t be pushy lol
Wait, what's wrong with dating a stranger?
1. Because you will never likely know theor parents.2. Your twice as likely to have problems with strangers.3. Your parents don't know them, you don't know them, your friends don't know them. 4. You want to date a person everyone already approves.5. You want to be with somebody who already knows you as a friend. A lover is also suppose to be a best friend. And many guys especially don't care for that, that is why so many women are frustrated with their partners because they aren't compatible. They get together out of lust, not love.6. You are less likely to see theor real character. Everything is most fake in the beginning.7. You don't k la theor dating history, sex loves if any, how many partners they had, theor lifestyle choice. You're not going to find all that out on a date.8. If they have hidden secrets still definitely keep it a secret.9. You don't know if they dealing with mental illness, if they got a history of being abusive, nothing. Everything is literally a mystery. 10. They don't owe you a second date especially if they don't want to have anything long-term with you. So don't be having high expectations about anything. You can have the best date ever and they can still not want you for a partner.
1. I don't know most of my friends' parents.2. I met yesterday a complete stranger and this person was very cool and kind.3. Everyone of your friends was at some point in your life a stranger you didn't know. If you'd have this mindset all the time, you wouldn't have met those awesome people.4. It's your life, not the life of your friends. 5. That's really close-minded. How do you want to find a new partner then if the last was bad?6. No person can fake their character for too long. And you will notice if somone acts fake.7. Did you know that there is a verbal tool called "asking" or "talking" which can fix this problem?8. Ok, that's true. But when he shows you his friends, you could find out a little bit if you're careful.9. Do you want to make incest or why do you have to know all of your partner from the beginning. It doesn't make sense.10. Not always but sometimes.
Doesn't matter what you think about the matter. You asked "What's wrong with dating a stranger?" I list most of the 10, there are at least about 50 reasons why you shouldn't. I wasn't going to put a whole list. 1. if you don't know most of your friends parents would then you better seriously think about that.2. Well that's good and gravy if all you care about is casual relationships. Most people want serious relationships, and if one wants a serious relationships they have to do it the right way.3. Actually know a lot of them were not strangers at all. And secondly I would not be with people that I don't feel comfortable with. That's why I believe in dating friends not strangers. I make the decision as well as God be the judge who is right for me and who is not right for me. They can be awesome people but they will be just friends. But not everybody qualifies as a potential lover. I am not wasting my time carrying baggage unneccesary experience, getting my heartbroken because of those things. I rather be smart not dumb.
4. Yes it may be my life but my friends will be able to tell if that person is write for me. They need to assess whether or not if that person is going to treat me well, and I need to see how well that's person treat my friends. Either way, I would never date a stranger. I always tell my friend's the same. Now a lot of them took my advice and they are happy with the partners they are with. While those that they did not know, those relationships did not laugh at all and it will always be problems. 5. That's not being close-minded that's being smart. It's not about finding a new partners about picking one partner, sticking with that partner, and doing right with that partner. If you know darn well you're not going to take it seriously don't date at all. It's just that simple. I have every right to judge their capabilities, how they choose to treat another person, and how they going to take a relationship seriously. There are many things you will not learn about a person because they're too busy goofing around, too busy going over with their feelings, and they don't think. I'm not going to deal with a person who's not going to be serious. Because once you and your and to be in that relationship. If you want out then you can see your own self out. I'm not going to get myself emotionally attached to somebody that's not going to be.6. Doesn't matter. You are less likely to see who the person really is when you're dating because they're too busy trying to impress me. And I'm not looking to be impressed. I'm here to make the right judgement call. If that person doesn't like it, they can always date the next person. That's all. No hard feelings.
7. you can talk all you want. But I have learned from a lot of my friends experiences and experiences of others plenty of people are not going to open up their mouth. And if you crawl on this site enough times, you will see that so many people end up dating people without knowing a lot of things. Such as mental illness, the amount of Partners they had, all the problems. I ain't putting myself through that. I am always clean with the things that goes on in my life. So I expect the same amount of respect. With strangers they aren't going to do that.8. First of all again I would not be dating somebody I don't know. Because now that would not be fair if I find out that he's hanging around the wrong kind of people and I have to tell him that he needs to rethink about the kind of friends you got.9. I don't see how incest have anything to do with what is being talkin about? I'm talking about somebody that you date within your community. I'm not talkin about somebody you date within a family that's disgusting.10. That's not the point. The point is is that if you look in his hat thing seriously, then you become serious by being friends with them first. Then you see your compatible. That way you don't date somebody who just going to dump you the next day because trust me if I have to dump the person the next split-second, that shows right there. That's it never happened in the first place. Nobody wants their time wasted.